04/03/2026
Gary Max Conaway was born April 17, 1945, in Alva, Oklahoma, to Ruby Lou (Darr) Guston and Robert Guston. He passed away on April 1, 2026, at the age of 80.
At the age of 12, Gary was legally adopted by his dad, J.K. “Red” Conaway, who helped shape the man he would become. Gary attended Waynoka Public Schools, where he excelled athletically, earning recognition as a standout football player. He graduated with the Class of 1963 and was honored by his classmates as “Best All-Around.”
Following high school, Gary attended Northwestern State College in Alva. In January of 1966, he enlisted in the United States Air National Guard and proudly served his country, including active duty time stationed in South Korea during the Vietnam War. After returning stateside in 1969, Gary returned to his position working for the Santa Fe Railroad. He continued his military service commitment until 1972.
After receiving a medical retirement from the railroad, Gary pursued further education, attending Northwestern Oklahoma State University, Southwestern Oklahoma State University, and Northeastern State University.
Gary had a deep love for sports and especially cherished supporting his son, Jason, during club & school sports, & later on the rodeo circuit. He also found great joy in fishing, sharing stories, and connecting with others. Known for his warm and friendly personality, Gary never met a stranger and had a unique gift for making friends wherever he went.
A man of strong perseverance, Gary was dedicated to Alcoholics Anonymous and celebrated an incredible 47 years of sobriety. Throughout those years, he held both state and national leadership positions within the organization and helped countless individuals find their own path to sobriety, leaving a lasting legacy of hope and service.
Gary is survived by his sister, Debbie Hoffman and husband Kirk of Hinton, Oklahoma; his nephew, Kris Hoffman and wife Natasha, and their daughters Katerina and Sophia; his nieces, Kori Turner and husband Andee, and their children Brylane, Elli, Jagor, Dru, and Quin; and Kimi Dahlenburg and husband Dallas, and their children Denver, Demi, and Dakota; his aunt Betty Ann Darr Gray as well as numerous cousins, extended family members, and many dear friends.
He was preceded in death by his parents, J.K. “Red” and Ruby Lou Conaway, his beloved son, Jason Conaway, grandparents Geoffrey and Ruth Darr & Otto and Cecil Conaway.
Gary will be remembered for his service to his country, his unwavering commitment to helping others, and the kindness and friendship he shared so freely with everyone he met.
Memorial Service: 11AM, Monday, April 20, 2026, Waynoka Municipal Cemetery Pavillion, Waynoka, OK
Services entrusted to Turner Funeral Home, Hinton, Oklahoma. Condolences may be sent to the family at turnerfuneralhomes@gmail.com, turnerfh.net, or you can find us on facebook.com (Turner Funeral Homes.)