05/25/2026
First, take a breath—this is a big moment, but you don’t have to figure everything out at once.
Start by talking with your girlfriend openly and calmly. Ask how she’s feeling and what she wants. Your role is to support her while also being honest about your own feelings.
Next, make sure the pregnancy is confirmed with a reliable healthcare provider. A medical professional can explain what stage the pregnancy is at and walk you both through your options, which includes continuing the pregnancy and parenting, continuing the pregnancy and making an adoption plan, or ending the pregnancy (abortion).
Each option comes with emotional, financial, and practical considerations, so it’s worth getting accurate medical information rather than relying on assumptions or pressure from others.
What you can do right now:
Be present and supportive—listen more than you talk
Help gather trustworthy information
Go with her to appointments if she wants support
Avoid rushing decisions out of fear or panic
If either of you feels overwhelmed, talking to a counselor or a trusted adult can really help you think clearly. Call us today for an appointment to help you walk through education, your options, and resources available to you.
Call 770-222-6911
Text 470-397-5130
Visit www.pauldingpregnancy.com
