09/22/2025
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When couples in NYC or Hoboken start preparing for marriage, most of the conversations are about the wedding, the venue, the flowers, the outfits, and the honeymoon. Those things are fun, but they aren’t the foundation of a lasting relationship. At BeWELL Psychotherapy, our couples therapy sessions in NYC and Hoboken often highlight how important it is to ask deeper questions before marriage.
“Marriage is more than a romantic commitment—it’s also a partnership that touches every part of your life, from how you handle conflict to how you manage finances,” says Divya Robin, LMHC, therapist at BeWELL. “Asking the right questions before you walk down the aisle isn’t unromantic, it’s an act of love. It’s how you make sure your relationship has the depth and alignment to last.”
Whether you’re engaged, thinking about getting engaged, or simply in a serious long-term relationship, these 10 questions can help you explore your values, expectations, and shared vision for the future before saying “I do.”
10 questions on Bewellpsychotherapy.com