11/01/2025
Enabling behaviors often come from a good place: love, care, and wanting to protect someone we care about. We want to make things easier, help them avoid pain, or keep the peace.
But here’s the tricky part: enabling can sneak in quietly. It doesn’t always look obvious. It can sound like…
“I’ll just handle it.”
“They didn’t mean it.”
“I don’t want to upset them.”
“They’ll do better next time.”
Over time, what starts as care can unintentionally keep unhealthy patterns in place, for them and for you.
🌿 The good news? Change is absolutely possible. Awareness is the first step. Boundaries aren’t a rejection, they’re an act of love for both people.
If this resonates, know that you’re certainly not alone, and support is out there to help you build healthier patterns.