The mind-body connection helps us understand why we think and feel the way we do, action can be taken to modify behaviors.
If we fail to recognize the underlying problem we continue to repeat bad patterns and perpetuate maladaptive coping. Credentials: Licensed CMHCA, MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Certification in Contemporary Theory in Mental Health Services, Mental Toughness Coach, Personal Fitness Trainer, Group Fitness Instructor, Nutrition Specialist and Weight Loss Coach
03/23/2026
Conflict in a marriage is inevitable. Disconnection doesn’t have to be.
Wendie Lubinsky shares a grounded approach to working through difficult moments together
• Put your ego aside
• Share your perspective clearly
• Lead with empathy
• Then build a bridge forward, together
It’s not about winning the argument. It’s about protecting the relationship.
If you’re feeling stuck in the same patterns, you’re not alone. Support is here when you’re ready.
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03/22/2026
Reminder - Our next seminar is taking place THIS WEEK.
Seminar: Intro to Somatic Experiencing and Co-Regulating Touch
Join us for an introductory talk with Audrey Burke, LMBT, SEP, RYT-200, as she explores Somatic Experiencing®, a body-based approach to trauma healing that supports nervous system regulation from the bottom up.
This presentation will explain how stress, shock, and trauma become stored in the body and how Somatic Experiencing works to restore regulation and resilience. Audrey will also discuss the role of co-regulating touch, particularly in healing developmental trauma and supporting clients who experience chronic nervous system dysregulation.
Audrey is a licensed massage therapist and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner based in Durham, North Carolina. She has completed the three-year Somatic Experiencing training and has studied Transforming Touch® with Stephen Terrell. She is currently advancing her work in somatic touch skills through ongoing study with Kathy Kain.
This is a thoughtful opportunity to better understand trauma through a nervous-system-focused lens.
We look forward to having you join us.
• Identifying emotional triggers for food behaviors
• Interrupting all-or-nothing thinking
• Developing hunger and fullness awareness
• Rebuilding trust with food
• Addressing trauma-related body disconnection
Healing your relationship with food begins with understanding why it formed.
03/10/2026
ADHD impacts executive functioning, emotional regulation, impulse control, and self-perception.
At WML Wellness & Wendie Lubinsky Counseling, Chelsy Afzal, Briana Bradley, and Emily Uhlig work with children, teens, and adults navigating ADHD.
Therapy may include:
• Executive functioning scaffolding systems
• Time-blocking and task initiation strategies
• Emotional regulation training for frustration tolerance
• Parent coaching for consistent structure at home
• Reframing shame-based narratives
• Body-based regulation for hyperactivity
ADHD is not a character flaw.
It is a neurological difference that benefits from strategy, structure, and understanding.
03/07/2026
Trauma is not just what happened to you. It is what your nervous system learned to do in order to survive.
At WML Wellness & Wendie Lubinsky Counseling, Dr. Wendie Lubinsky, Briana Bradley, and Grace Manchala provide trauma-informed therapy, including EMDR for trauma and PTSD.
Treatment may include:
• Identifying trauma triggers and body-based responses
• EMDR processing of distressing memories
• Resourcing and grounding skills before trauma work begins
• Reframing trauma-driven beliefs such as “I am not safe”
• Building window-of-tolerance awareness
• Restoring a sense of internal control and stability
Trauma healing is structured and paced carefully.
You are never rushed.
Your body deserves to feel safe again.
03/04/2026
Conflict in relationships is rarely about the surface issue.
It is usually about attachment patterns, emotional safety, unmet needs, and communication styles that developed long before this relationship began.
At WML Wellness & Wendie Lubinsky Counseling, Dr. Wendie Lubinsky, MA, LCMHC and Briana Bradley, LCSWA work with couples to:
• Identify negative communication cycles
• Replace criticism and defensiveness with structured repair attempts
• Build emotional regulation skills before difficult conversations
• Establish healthy boundaries without withdrawal
• Rebuild intimacy after betrayal or disconnection
• Learn conflict de-escalation tools rooted in nervous system awareness
Couples therapy is not about deciding who is right.
It is about helping both partners feel heard, safe, and respected.
Healthy relationships are built and maintained over time.
03/02/2026
Seminar: Intro to Somatic Experiencing and Co-Regulating Touch
Join us for an introductory talk with Audrey Burke, LMBT, SEP, RYT-200, as she explores Somatic Experiencing®, a body-based approach to trauma healing that supports nervous system regulation from the bottom up.
This presentation will explain how stress, shock, and trauma become stored in the body and how Somatic Experiencing works to restore regulation and resilience. Audrey will also discuss the role of co-regulating touch, particularly in healing developmental trauma and supporting clients who experience chronic nervous system dysregulation.
Audrey is a licensed massage therapist and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner based in Durham, North Carolina. She has completed the three-year Somatic Experiencing training and has studied Transforming Touch® with Stephen Terrell. She is currently advancing her work in somatic touch skills through ongoing study with Kathy Kain.
This is a thoughtful opportunity to better understand trauma through a nervous-system-focused lens. We look forward to having you join us.
Parenting today comes with constant pressure. Be gentle but firm. Support but don’t coddle. Prepare them for the real world without overwhelming them. It can feel exhausting and confusing to know what is “right.”
Join WML Wellness and Wendie Lubinsky Counseling for an honest, supportive conversation about raising emotionally healthy children while staying regulated yourself.
This seminar will be led by Dr. Wendie Lubinsky, MS, LCMHC, Owner and CEO of WML Wellness & Wendie Lubinsky Counseling. Dr. Lubinsky brings years of clinical experience working with children, parents, and families, with a focus on emotional regulation, healthy relationships, and whole-person mental health.
During this seminar, Dr. Lubinsky will explore practical, real-world parenting strategies, including:
• Setting healthy, age-appropriate boundaries without guilt
• Staying calm during your child’s dysregulation
• Navigating tantrums and emotional meltdowns
• Understanding helpful versus harmful pressure
• Why treating children “the same” is not always what they need
• How connection supports long-term emotional resilience
ADHD can look different at every stage of life. For children, it may show up as difficulty focusing in school, emotional outbursts, or challenges with organization and follow-through. For adults, it can feel like chronic overwhelm, trouble managing time, difficulty starting or finishing tasks, or feeling constantly behind despite working hard.
At WML Wellness and Wendie Lubinsky Counseling, we work with both children and adults with ADHD using a practical, whole-person approach. Therapy focuses on understanding how ADHD shows up in daily life and developing strategies that actually work in real-world settings like school, work, home, and relationships.
Support may include building executive functioning skills, improving emotional regulation, creating realistic routines, strengthening communication, and identifying tools to reduce overwhelm and increase follow-through. For children and teens, therapy often includes collaboration with caregivers to support consistency and confidence at home and school. For adults, care may focus on stress management, self-compassion, and sustainable systems that fit individual strengths and lifestyles.
Because ADHD rarely exists in isolation, our multi-clinician practice allows for thoughtful collaboration and internal referrals when needed. This ensures clients are supported by a therapist whose experience and approach align with their specific needs.
ADHD is not a character flaw or lack of effort. With the right support, individuals can better understand their brains, build effective skills, and feel more confident navigating everyday life.
If you or your child are seeking support for ADHD, WML Wellness and Wendie Lubinsky Counseling is here to help guide the next step.
02/25/2026
Trauma can affect people in many different ways. For some, it may be connected to military service or first responder experiences. For others, it may stem from past relationships, childhood experiences, loss, or life-altering events.
At WML Wellness and Wendie Lubinsky Counseling, several of our clinicians have experience working with veterans, individuals navigating PTSD, and those processing trauma in its many forms. Our approach is grounded in safety, respect, and pacing that honors each person’s readiness and needs.
Healing from trauma is not one-size-fits-all. That is why having a multi-clinician practice matters. Within our team, we are able to thoughtfully refer and collaborate so clients can work with the therapist whose training, style, and experience are the best fit for their mental health goals.
Whether someone is seeking trauma-informed talk therapy, support for PTSD symptoms, EMDR, or a more experiential approach, care can be adjusted and coordinated without starting over elsewhere.
At WML Wellness and Wendie Lubinsky Counseling, our goal is to help clients feel supported, understood, and confident that they are receiving care aligned with their unique experiences and needs.
If you or someone you care about is exploring therapy related to trauma or military-connected experiences, we are here to help guide that next step.
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Send a message to WML Wellness LLC & Wendie Lubinsky Counseling:
I am Wendie Lubinsky, the Owner and CEO of WML Wellness in Holly Springs, NC. I have completed all CACREP academic requirements from Capella University for the Master’s Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and currently working under a CMHC supervisor registered with the NCBLMHC to complete the internship requirements for graduation (projected graduation date of 2021). I have already obtained a Certification in Contemporary Theory in Mental Health Services from Capella University in 2019. I practice Whole Health Coaching with Nutritional Counseling by incorporating physical fitness and nutritional services into the counseling environment for a holistic approach to wellness. I am a Certified Personal Trainer, Group Fitness Instructor, Nutrition Coach, Life Coach, Weight Loss Coach, and Mental Toughness Coach since 2001. I have a Bachelor’s degree from the University of Irvine, CA in English (graduated 2003). My experience in the mental health field began with personal training and nutritional coaching in 2001 by helping clients achieve their goals with motivational and goal oriented programs while simultaneously helping them overcome personal obstacles. While working as a personal trainer and group fitness instructor, I obtained my life coaching certificate and focused on clients with eating disorders. My research and experience with eating disorders has led to the whole health coaching perspective and approach to a holistic view of healthcare and wellness. I have continued to work in the field of nutrition, weight management, and mental health to date (19 years) and have now expanded my education by achieving an MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I have experience working with individual, group, couples, and family settings providing services for adolescents and adults. Areas of therapy include behavioral, trauma, relationship, developmental, family difficulties, eating disorders and s*x counseling. I can help guide and support you through all your obstacles regarding your mental health challenges, nutrition and weight goals by helping you uncover the underlying problems that promote bad habits and prevent you from accomplishing the change you desire.
My whole health counseling company specializes in wellness for the mind and body from the inside out. I believe in a holistic approach to wellness which means you can’t fix just one thing about yourself in order to achieve wellness. There is a mind – body connection that needs to be discovered in order for change to happen. When we understand why we think and feel the way we do, action can be taken to modify behaviors. If we fail to recognize the underlying problem we continue to repeat bad patterns and perpetuate maladaptive coping. We all have goals for ourselves and sometimes it’s hard to achieve them; short on time, no support from family and friends, lack of energy, justifying that your goals are lofty and unnecessary, depression, anxiety, fear, etc. Therapy sessions are dedicated to help you where you need it the most. I practice in individual and family therapy but also enjoy working with couples. Theories I practice are Psychotherapy, REBT, Structural Family Therapy, CBT, Attachment Theory, Exposure Therapy and Cognitive Based Therapies.
