12/28/2025
The postpartum phase is not a mood shift, an emotional dip, or a “rough couple of weeks”. It is the single greatest hormonal crash in the human lifespan, a biological event so extreme that if it happened to anyone outside of childbirth, it would be treated as a medical crisis, not a personality change. Within just 72 hours estrogen and progesterone collapse more than 1,000% (meaning they fall to 1/10th of their level), dropping from the highest levels a human will ever experience to nearly zero. And, women endure this while healing from birth, producing milk around the clock, and surviving some of the worst sleep deprivation ever documented.
This crash doesn’t just affect mood, it impacts cognition, physical functioning, emotional regulation, and stress tolerance. Brain imaging shows that postpartum mothers temporarily shift into survival mode: heightened threat awareness, reduced cognitive bandwidth, and amplified emotional load - not because they’re overreacting, but because their brain is actively rewiring itself to protect a newborn who cannot survive without them.
At the same time, the body is rerouting nutrients, pulling minerals from the bones, healing tissues, stabilizing organs, and producing milk that costs 400-700 calories a day, and yet society expects mothers to “feel like themselves” within 6 weeks — a timeline completed disconnected from biology.
Postpartum isn’t weakness, it’s physiology under maximum load. If we truly want to support new mothers, we must start acknowledging the science: healing requires time, nourishment, help, support, and protection from overwhelm. When we honor the mother’s recovery, we strengthen the child she is raising, and that is how generational health begins.
What part of this science resonates with your own experience? How can we better support new mothers in our communities?
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