01/30/2026
Fun Friday: Teen Translation
Sometimes the words aren’t the whole message—especially when a teen feels overwhelmed, misunderstood, or unsure how to say what’s really going on.
“I’m fine.” = not ready to talk
“Whatever.” = I feel dismissed / I’m shutting down
“You wouldn’t get it.” = I feel alone
Try this instead of pushing for more words:
“Do you want advice, comfort, or space?”
It communicates care while giving your teen a little control—often the fastest route back to connection.
Sparrow Counseling (Birmingham/Homewood) supports teens, preteens, and parents. Message us or learn more through our website.