Dr. Lisa Lee, PsyD

Dr. Lisa Lee, PsyD I am a psychologist who specializes in LGBTQ+ / MVPFAFF+ identity and relationships. I see individuals for therapy via telehealth and serve all of Hawai`i.

If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, or your relationships, give me a call.

 So grateful for  and .li.hawaii.realtor for the invitation to the Q***r Women Initiative Business Expo on Tuesday night...
09/18/2025


So grateful for and .li.hawaii.realtor for the invitation to the Q***r Women Initiative Business Expo on Tuesday night! What an awesome event to highlight q***r women entrepreneurs in Hawai`i and to learn from the esteemed panel 💖🌺🙏😊




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I’ll be there! 🎉🏳️‍⚧️🌈💖
08/27/2025

I’ll be there! 🎉🏳️‍⚧️🌈💖

Regarding AI therapy (just my two cents), I don’t think AI will ever replace an actual human who genuinely cares about y...
08/07/2025

Regarding AI therapy (just my two cents), I don’t think AI will ever replace an actual human who genuinely cares about you as a therapist. Even when the world is falling apart, there is still true compassion and hope.




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I’m giving a virtual talk entitled “Practitioner-Focused Risk Assessment in Underserved Populations: considerations for ...
08/01/2025

I’m giving a virtual talk entitled “Practitioner-Focused Risk Assessment in Underserved Populations: considerations for LGBTQIA+ clients” :)




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🌈 Let’s talk about internalized homophobia.It’s not always loud. Sometimes it’s a quiet voice telling you: • “I’m too mu...
07/06/2025

🌈 Let’s talk about internalized homophobia.
It’s not always loud. Sometimes it’s a quiet voice telling you:
• “I’m too much.”
• “I’ll never be accepted.”
• “I don’t want to be that kind of gay.”

Internalized homophobia happens when the world’s messages of shame, fear, or rejection get absorbed—turning outward prejudice inward. It can look like:
💔 Judging others in the LGBTQ+ community
🫣 Hiding parts of yourself
😔 Feeling unworthy of love, safety, or joy

You are not broken. You’ve been surviving in a world that made you question your worth.
Unlearning it takes time, compassion, and community.

🏳️‍🌈 You deserve pride, not just during Pride. You deserve peace, softness, and full self-love.

Tag someone who needs to hear this 💖
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Happy Pride all!! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈        ***an
06/02/2025

Happy Pride all!! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

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Eradicating black and white thinking/all or nothing thinking takes constant work 💪. Two things can be true at the same t...
05/22/2025

Eradicating black and white thinking/all or nothing thinking takes constant work 💪. Two things can be true at the same time 🧠. We all have parts of ourselves that can be embraced 🫂.



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Donating 12 inches to  💙!
04/19/2025

Donating 12 inches to 💙!

Sometimes you just need to eat a Moo Deng dessert 🦛
04/14/2025

Sometimes you just need to eat a Moo Deng dessert 🦛

This picture was taken in 2023, but it still holds true today! 1️⃣ Bisexuality is the romantic, emotional, or sexual att...
04/10/2025

This picture was taken in 2023, but it still holds true today!

1️⃣ Bisexuality is the romantic, emotional, or sexual attraction to more than one gender. It doesn’t require equal attraction to all genders or simultaneous relationships.

2️⃣ Bisexuality is a legitimate sexual orientation, just like being gay, le***an, or straight. It exists on a spectrum and can vary greatly from person to person.

3️⃣ A common myth is that bisexuality is just a phase or confusion before someone “picks a side.” In reality, many people identify as bisexual for their entire lives.

4️⃣ Bisexuality is about attraction, not behavior. A bisexual person in a relationship with someone of a particular gender doesn’t become straight or gay — they’re still bisexual.

5️⃣ Another myth is that bisexual people are more likely to want threesomes. Bisexuality doesn’t imply a certain level of sexual activity or desire for multiple partners.

6️⃣ Bisexual people often face biphobia — negative attitudes or discrimination — both from straight and gay/le***an individuals. This can include invalidation, stereotyping, or erasure.

7️⃣ Due to stigma, bisexual people tend to experience higher rates of mental health issues such as anxiety and depression compared to both straight and gay individuals.

Happy Trans Day of Visibility! 🏳️‍⚧️🩷💙🤍 It’s important for cisgender people like myself to acknowledge the often unrecog...
04/01/2025

Happy Trans Day of Visibility! 🏳️‍⚧️🩷💙🤍
It’s important for cisgender people like myself to acknowledge the often unrecognized privileges we live with each day. Here is the cisgender privileges list from “A Clinician’s Guide to Gender-Affirming Care”:

-Being able to use public restrooms, locker rooms, or other sex-segregated spaces without fear or even having to think about it

-Not having to think about which gender box to check on an application or form

-Never having to worry about other people getting your pronouns wrong

-Never having to worry about educating your doctors about how to provide you with appropriate health care

-Having identification documents that have the correct name and gender marker

-Not having to constantly defend your medical decisions or have them be seen as a political statement

-Not having to worry about representing all people of the same or similar gender (e.g., representing all trans women)

-Not having to worry about what the police officer will say or do if you get pulled over while driving and have to show your driver’s license

-Not being expected to answer deeply personal questions about your body or genitalia

-Being able to participate on athletic teams without scrutiny about whether your gender identity is acceptable for the team and league

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