12/12/2025
The honest truth is this:
This journey hasn’t been easy — not for him, not for me.
Sobriety asks for a kind of courage most people never witness.
And being married through it means feeling everything: the history, the old hurts, the resentment that sneaks in, the unspoken words, the moments where patience feels like the hardest thing in the world.
And the bigger truth?
We’re still in it.
It’s not a one-time choice tied up with a bow.
It’s a living, breathing path that needs constant tending —
nurturing, honesty, space, repair,
yelling when it’s real,
crying when it’s needed,
and love and reverence woven through it all.
We’re still walking it — together and individually — always learning how to meet each new layer.
When he chose sobriety… I chose to walk the path with him.
Not as a shadow, not as a savior — but as a partner, shoulder to shoulder, choosing the work, the healing, the devotion it would take to rebuild and reimagine our life.
One of the most beautiful parts of his journey has been watching him find nature as his church —
the place where he returns to his body instead of escaping it.
Where the woods steady him.
Where the mountains clear him.
Where the trails give him back to himself.
This has become his grounding, his medicine, his way home.
And now — 13 years. 12/12/2012
A date aligned with portals, patterns, and divine timing.
It is one of the deepest honors of my life to walk this path beside you, Jamie.
I’m forever grateful we chose sobriety — both of us — and everything that choice continues to reveal.
So today…
we CELEBRATE YOU.
We HONOR YOU.
Thirteen years of choosing you.
Choosing life — real, grounded, embodied life.
Choosing presence instead of escape.
Choosing the highest timeline available.
Opening doors to new beginnings — for yourself, for us, for our whole family.
I love you endlessly — through the light, the fire, the process, the continual becoming — through every version of us across every timeline in this brilliant multiverse. 💫