01/26/2026
“Thank you for saving me. I honestly NEVER thought I’d see this day.”
If you have not slept well in months or years, you know this pain: Lying in bed exhausted but wired. Waking at 2 or 3 am with your mind racing. Waking in the morning already depleted, foggy, irritable, and behind before the day even starts.
And perhaps you’ve been told
“It’s normal.” or “it’s part of aging” and “Its the new normal”
Hormone changes are real. But chronic sleep deprivation should not be normalized. Research now clearly shows what women have been living for years: poor sleep accelerates inflammation, worsens insulin resistance, impacts brain health, and increases long-term risk for cognitive decline and cardiometabolic disease. Sleep is not a luxury. It is foundational to longevity.
When sleep is off, everything else starts to unravel: Mood is shorter, Patience is thinner. Thinking feels harder. Motivation to exercise disappears. The immune system feels weaker & overall resilience drops.
We recently had a peri-menopausal patient send us this sleep score picture with the message “Thank you for saving me. I honestly NEVER thought I’d see this day!”
Before working with us, both her P*P and gynecologist told her her symptoms were normal. One offered an antidepressant. She didn’t feel depressed. She felt hormonally depleted and chronically stressed. We looked at her hormones, her stress response, and her nervous system. She had a good life. She also had real, ongoing stress and a physiology that could no longer compensate.
We supported her evening nervous system with magnesium, supported cortisol regulation with Cortisol Manager (this supplement contains ashwagandha, magnolia and phosphatidylserine).
We discussed HRT - she agreed she wanted to trial bio-identical micronized progesterone to support sleep depth and brain calmingand bio-identical estradiol patches to support sleep regulation and hormone balancing.
If you know a peri or postmenopausal woman who is suffering with sleep and being told this is just part of aging, please share this with her. She deserves better care.