10/21/2025
Mental Health Moment: Let’s Talk Hyper-Independence
Ever caught yourself saying:
“I don’t like asking for help.”
“It’s just easier to do it myself.”
“I don’t want to be a burden.”
That could be a nervous system adaptation.
It’s called hyper-independence, and it often forms when you learned (early and/or often) that support wasn’t safe, reliable, or available.
And it's not about blame, it’s about understanding.
You didn’t mess up by becoming “too self-sufficient.” You adapted. You survived.
And now? Now you have the opportunity to do more than just survive. Our therapists at Healing Routes Counseling are here to support you in that process.
Therapy can help you untangle those old beliefs and build something gentler, more connected, and less exhausting.
Healing doesn’t mean you can’t do it alone.
It means you don’t have to.
We’re here for you when you’re ready.
At Healing Routes Counseling, LLC, we believe that healing is a journey, unique to each individual, and we are here to walk alongside you as you navigate your path towards greater well-being, resilience, and fulfillment through our counseling services.