Inner Healing Trauma Coach

09/24/2025

WHAT PEOPLE ARE EXPERIENCING IN THEIR INNER HEALING TRAUMA COACHING SESSIONS:

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✨️MISSION STATEMENT✨️

My mission is to create a safe, confidential, respectful, compassionate, & supportive space for those impacted by trauma &/or spiritual oppression.

I aim to help others feel seen, heard, understood and restored through Christ-centered coaching, prayer and inner healing support.

✨️COST OF SESSIONS✨️

This service is offered freely as an expression of God’s love, mercy & grace, ensuring that financial barriers never prevent someone from receiving support & care. God has been wonderfully faithful to provide & take care of me in other ways as a result of my no cost commitment. And honestly I feel very conflicted with putting a price tag on a spiritual gift that has very much been supernaturally gifted to me for others. Im extremely humbled over & over to be used by the Lord and if you knew my past I certainly don't deserve the honor of caring such a gift.

✨️HISTORY & EXPERIENCE✨️

This ministry is tried and true, it's built upon 12 plus years of hands-on experience. Three years served in a church ministry setting. Nine years serving within a clinical setting and 3+ years in a private practice type setting. Reflecting upon my Google Calendar records, I am approaching 1,000 sessions completed. This is representative of an estimated 2,000+ hours of healing prayer and coaching. Hundreds of individuals have been served, cared for, mentored, & guided closer to Jesus the ultimate Healer of life’s deepest wounds and most horrific experiences. Every testimony and every breakthrough is to the praise and glory of God’s grace alone!!! If any wonderful thing is attributed to me I gratefully point it all back to the Lord and the work of the Holy Spirit, to which I would be nothing without.

My dedication is to helping others experience the peace, love, freedom and restoration that only God can provide.

❓️HOW DOES IT WORK❓️

Clients fill out a preliminary worksheet designed to help identify and highlight specific areas to do focused work around. We set a date/time to execute a 60 minute inner healing coaching phone call where God does the rest in the context of coaching and prayer.

09/24/2025

TRIGGERS—those moments when we feel an outsized emotional reaction to a situation, word, or behavior—are like mirrors. They don’t just tell us about what’s happening externally; they reveal something about our inner world. Here are a few key things triggers can show us about ourselves:

🌟1. Unhealed Wounds
Often, triggers point to unresolved pain from the past. When a present experience feels disproportionately intense, it may be reactivating an old wound that hasn’t been fully processed.

Example: Feeling deep rejection when someone cancels plans may reflect earlier experiences of abandonment.

🌟2. Core Beliefs and Narratives
Triggers highlight the stories we tell ourselves—beliefs about worth, safety, love, or identity. If a comment makes us defensive, it may be brushing up against a hidden insecurity or self-doubt.

Example: If someone questions your competence and it sparks anger, it could reveal a belief that you’re “not good enough” that you’re still wrestling with.

🌟3. Values
Sometimes, triggers show us what values in life, relationships or world view that matter the most deeply to us. They act like alarm bells saying: “This is important to me—pay attention.”

Example: Feeling frustrated when others are dishonest may reflect that you value integrity highly.

🌟4. Blind Spots
Triggers can reveal aspects of ourselves we don’t consciously acknowledge. They expose the “shadow” parts—things we’ve buried, denied, or dislike in ourselves but react strongly to in others.

Example: Criticizing someone for being arrogant may point to an unacknowledged pride or a discomfort with confidence in yourself.

🌟5. Opportunities for Growth
A trigger isn’t just a problem—it’s an invitation. It shows where there’s room to heal, strengthen resilience, or refine emotional maturity. Each trigger is like a teacher exposing a lesson we may not have chosen but still need.

✨ In short:
Triggers don’t define us, but they reveal us. They highlight where healing, self-awareness, and alignment are still in progress. If we lean into them with curiosity instead of shame, they can become powerful guides toward freedom and growth.

09/23/2025

09/20/2025

WHAT PEOPLE ARE EXPERIENCING IN THEIR INNER HEALING TRAUMA COACHING SESSIONS:

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✨️MISSION STATEMENT✨️

My mission is to create a safe, confidential, respectful, compassionate, & supportive space for those impacted by trauma or spiritual oppression.

I aim to help others feel seen, heard, understood and restored through Christ-centered coaching, prayer and inner healing support.

✨️COST OF SESSIONS✨️

This service is offered freely as an expression of God’s love, mercy & grace, ensuring that financial barriers never prevent someone from receiving support & care. God has been wonderfully faithful to provide & take care of me in other ways as a result of my no cost commitment. And honestly I feel very conflicted with putting a price tag on a spiritual gift that has very much been supernaturally gifted to me for others. Im extremely humbled over & over to be used by the Lord and if you knew my past I certainly don't deserve the honor of caring such a gift.

✨️HISTORY & EXPERIENCE✨️

This ministry is tried and true, it's built upon 12 plus years of hands-on experience. Three years served in a church ministry setting. Nine years serving within a clinical setting and 3+ years in a private practice type setting. Reflecting upon my Google Calendar records, I am approaching 1,000 sessions completed. This is representative of an estimated 2,000+ hours of healing prayer and coaching. Hundreds of individuals have been served, cared for, mentored, & guided closer to Jesus the ultimate Healer of life’s deepest wounds and most horrific experiences. Every testimony and every breakthrough is to the praise and glory of God’s grace alone!!! If any wonderful thing is attributed to me I gratefully point it all back to the Lord and the work of the Holy Spirit, to which I would be nothing without.

My dedication is to helping others experience the peace, love, freedom and restoration that only God can provide.

❓️HOW DOES IT WORK❓️

Clients fill out a preliminary worksheet designed to help identify and highlight specific areas to do focused work around. We set a date/time to execute a 60 minute inner healing coaching phone call where God does the rest in the context of coaching and prayer.

09/19/2025

BROKEN PROMISES = can leave an aftermath of disappointment, sadness, anger, depression, hope deferred, let down, & questioning which means you gotta let God pick you back up, heal all the emotional pain and restore your soul.

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Proverbs 13:12 NLT
Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life.

Proverbs 13:12 GNT
When hope is crushed, the heart is crushed, but a wish come true fills you with joy.

Proverbs 13:12 MSG
Unrelenting disappointment leaves you heartsick, but a sudden good break can turn life around.

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❓️❓️❓️🧐❓️❓️❓️

How does being let down affect us?

What's the mental emotional spiritual and physical impact?

1. Emotional Impact

✨️Sadness & discouragement – unmet expectations trigger a sense of loss.

✨️Frustration & anger – the gap between what was hoped for and what happened fuels irritation.

✨️Loneliness – when let down by people, it can feel like we’re carrying burdens alone.

✨️Hopelessness – repeated letdowns can create a mindset of “things never work out for me.”

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2. Mental & Cognitive Impact

✨️Erosion of trust – we begin doubting not only others but sometimes ourselves (“Did I expect too much?”)

✨️Negative thought patterns – letdowns can lead to overgeneralizing (“people always fail me”).

✨️Self-doubt – we may question our worth or whether we deserved the promise kept.

✨️Rumination – replaying the disappointment over and over, which reinforces the pain, hurt, anger, resentment, hate, bitterness.

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3. Relational Impact

✨️Guardedness – we become hesitant to trust or rely on others again.💯

✨️Relational distance – feeling let down can create walls instead of bridges. 💯🔥

✨️Communication breakdown – we may withdraw rather than risk another disappointment. 💯

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4. Physical / Stress-Response Impact

✨️Increased stress – the brain registers disappointment like a threat, triggering cortisol release. Research for yourself the cascading effects of high levels of cortisol in the body.

✨️Sleep disruption – racing thoughts from replaying the letdown can disturb rest.

✨️Tension in the body – frustration and sadness can manifest in headaches, muscle tightness, or fatigue. (Get a 💆🏻‍♀️💆🏼‍♂️& let go of that 💩)

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5. Spiritual Impact

✨️Faith tested – especially if we equate human letdowns with God’s promises. Unresolved relational hurt from people directly affect your connection intimacy to God, don't fool yourself. The cross is both horizontal and vertical for a reason... they intersect in the middle.

✨️Prayer life affected – discouragement can reduce the desire to pray or believe. All the negative emotions can muddy up the heart and rob us of our prayer life.

✨️Bitterness risk – if left unresolved, being let down can harden the heart. Pride unbelief hatred all satanic doorways directly to the heart.

✨️Invitation to deeper trust – it can also remind us that God’s faithfulness is unchanging, even when people fail.

One thing God spoke to me so powerfully on a personal level many years ago was: "son people will always miss manage & mishandle your heart but if you bring it to me I promise to always heal it."

That was a personal covenant/agreement that I was given to me directly from the Lord and he's been absolutely faithful to do that very thing time and time again. 💯

This is especially important for people that have big hearts & take big risks, putting themselves out there to love and help others right where they're at.

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SUMMERIZED TRUTH :

People, even with the best intentions, will sometimes let us down, promises may be broken, expectations unmet, or words left unfulfilled. But God is different. His Word is sure, His promises are yes and amen, and His faithfulness never wavers. When we anchor our trust in Him, we stand on a foundation that cannot be shaken.

09/05/2025

WHAT PEOPLE ARE EXPERIENCING IN THEIR INNER HEALING TRAUMA COACHING SESSIONS:

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✨️MISSION STATEMENT✨️

My mission is to create a safe, confidential, respectful, compassionate, & supportive space for those impacted by trauma.

I aim to help others feel seen, heard, understood and restored through Christ-centered coaching, prayer and inner healing support.

✨️COST OF SESSIONS✨️

This service is offered freely as an expression of God’s love, mercy & grace, ensuring that financial barriers never prevent someone from receiving support & care. God has been wonderfully faithful to provide & take care of me in other ways as a result of my no cost commitment. And honestly I feel very conflicted with putting a price tag on a spiritual gift that has very much been supernaturally gifted to me for others. Im extremely humbled over & over to be used by the Lord and if you knew my past I certainly don't deserve the honor of caring such a gift.

✨️HISTORY & EXPERIENCE✨️

This ministry is tried and true, it's built upon 12 plus years of hands-on experience. Three years served in a church ministry setting. Nine years serving within a clinical setting and 3+ years in a private practice type setting. Reflecting upon my Google Calendar records, I am approaching 1,000 sessions completed. This is representative of an estimated 2,000+ hours of healing prayer and coaching. Hundreds of individuals have been served, cared for, mentored, & guided closer to Jesus the ultimate Healer of life’s deepest wounds and most horrific experiences. Every testimony and every breakthrough is to the praise and glory of God’s grace alone!!!

My dedication is to helping others experience the peace, love, freedom and restoration that only God can provide.

❓️HOW DOES IT WORK❓️

Clients fill out a preliminary worksheet designed to help identify and highlight specific areas to do focused work around. We set a date/time to execute a 60 minute inner healing coaching phone call where God does the rest in the context of coaching and prayer.

09/04/2025

"Trauma might be humanities largest health epidemic" —THE BODY KEEPS THE SCORE ✨️

Most of us will encounter trauma at some point in our lives. It comes in a variety of forms:

✨️Childhood abuse or neglect – verbal abuse, constant criticism, rejection, or lack of affection.

✨️Abandonment or loss – death of a loved one, parental separation/divorce, or being left out, loss of career purpose or investments

✨️Bullying & humiliation – persistent teasing, shaming, or public embarrassment.

✨️Domestic violence & conflict – living in a household with constant fighting, yelling, or threats.

✨️Betrayal of trust – infidelity, broken promises, or being lied to by someone close.

✨️Emotional neglect – being unseen, unheard, or unimportant in relationships.

✨️Witnessing death or violence – exposure to accidents, abuse, or traumatic events, even indirectly.

✨️Rejection & exclusion – being ostracized socially, rejected by peers, or experiencing prejudice/discrimination.

STORED / COMPOUNDED EFFECTS:

Now, while trauma survivors do not consistently hold their memories top of mind, it appears their bodies (nervous system/brain) seem to keep the memories a priority. This makes day to day interactions strained, stressful, anxious, difficult, etc due to frequent often unpredictable mental and physical stress responses which has a cascading effect on the body.

At the end of the day, we're all trying to survive and thrive. If we find ourselves in situations where we are unable to escape threats, our bodies tend to develop a physiological imprint, in order to protect us going forward. While it means well, it is detrimental to our normal functioning and social engagement.

TAKE ACTION / BE SOLUTION MINDED:

Healing mental/emotional trauma through forgiving those who have perpetrated it, releasing the trapped & suppressed emotional pain, severing ties with the lies & tormenting beliefs, reframing and transforming the lens in which we see & perceive (-self- others- God- life-) through, letting God's love fill those broken dysfunctional places within us empowers us to move forward & live a higher quality of life.

You and most everyone closely connected to you will benefit from❗️YOU❗️putting in the work & healing from the inside out. 🙏✨️

Don't be afraid to put the work in & heal...
Don't be afraid to ask the tough questions...
Don't be afraid to ask others for help...

09/03/2025

WHAT PEOPLE ARE EXPERIENCING IN THEIR INNER HEALING TRAUMA COACHING SESSIONS:

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MISSION STATEMENT:

My mission is to create a safe, confidential, respectful, compassionate, & supportive space for those impacted by trauma.

I aim to help others feel seen, heard, understood and restored through Christ-centered coaching, prayer and inner healing support.

This service is offered freely as an expression of God’s love, mercy & grace, ensuring that financial barriers never prevent someone from receiving support & care. God has been wonderfully faithful to provide & take care of me in other ways as a result of my no cost commitment.

This ministry is tried & true with over 12yrs of hands on experience. It's rooted in integrity, confidentiality, anonymity and love. My dedication is to helping others experience the peace, love, freedom and restoration that only God can provide.

HOW DOES IT WORK?

Clients fill out a preliminary worksheet designed to identify and highlight specific areas to do focused work around. We set a date/time to execute a 60 minute inner healing coaching phone call where God does the rest in the context of coaching and prayer.

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James 5:13 TLV
Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray.

James (Jacob) 5:13 TPT
Are there any believers in your fellowship suffering great hardship and distress? Encourage them to pray!
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Psalms 34:18 TPT
The Lord is close to all whose hearts are crushed by pain, and he is always ready to restore the repentant one.

Psalms 34:18 MSG
If you’re kicked in the gut, He’ll help you catch your breath.

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Psalms 46:1 TPT
God, you’re such a safe and powerful place to find refuge! You’re a proven help in time of trouble— more than enough and always available whenever I need you.

Psalms 46:1 NLT
God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble.

Psalms 46:1 AMP
A very present and well-proved help in trouble.
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08/27/2025

🔥✨4 DIMENSIONS OF ️REFINEMENT✨️🔥

● Spiritual
● Mental
● Emotional
● Character

God uses both the fire and the fragrance of life to refine us. Trials burn away what doesn’t belong, while blessings reveal what’s worth keeping. In His hands, nothing is wasted; everything shapes us into vessels that reflect His glory.

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1 Peter 1:6-9 NLT
So be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you must endure many trials for a little while. These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold—though your faith is far more precious than mere gold. So when your faith remains strong through many trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world. You love him even though you have never seen him. Though you do not see him now, you trust him; and you rejoice with a glorious, inexpressible joy. The reward for trusting him will be the salvation of your souls.

Malachi 3:3 NLT
He will sit like a refiner of silver, burning away the dross. He will purify the Levites, refining them like gold and silver, so that they may once again offer acceptable sacrifices to the Lord.

Psalm 66:10 GNT
You have put us to the test, God; as silver is purified by fire, so you have tested us.

Psalms 66:10 TPT
O Lord, we have passed through your fire; like precious metal made pure, you’ve proved us, perfected us, and made us holy.

Psalms 66:8-12 MSG
He trained us first, passed us like silver through refining fires, Brought us into hardscrabble country, pushed us to our very limit, Road-tested us inside and out, took us to hell and back; Finally he brought us to this well-watered place.

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“God’s intention is never to destroy, but to refine until His life shines unhindered through us."

—Watchman Nee

08/11/2025

PERFORMANCE-BASED LOVE

If your internal value system for people is rooted in how well they treat you (AKA their performance record) then when they inevitably fail or fall short of that subconscious standard, you may find yourself withdrawing value from them or all together devaluing them in different ways.

Setting boundaries due to toxic harmful abusive behaviors is a different discussion. We're talking about the lens of worth and value and what creates that lens in which we see others through.

Every person carries inherent worth, even those society labels as the worst. Don’t let your relationships be governed by performance-based love. Value people right where they are. God does not value you based on your performance. While actions and behaviors can bring both rewards or negative consequences, lets not allow them to depreciate a person's inherent worth in our eyes which is God-given.

We're all guilty here because none of us love exactly like God does or value exactly like God does but we can examine & check the lens in which we're seeing life through.

Ask yourself: “Why do I value people? What really makes me value them?"

We all may find that our internal value system could use some adjustment, healing & recalibration from time to time especially when we've been hurt, betrayed, wronged and let down by others.

This is one of many areas where inner healing ministry can be a powerful tool — playing a powerful role. It uncovers hidden value systems that we can renounce, repent, break free from, and prayerfully align our hearts with God’s truth so that we can progressively love like He loves. 🕊🤍✨️

07/15/2025

DEVALUED: To be devalued means to be treated as if your worth, contributions, feelings, or presence are less important or less valuable than they actually are. This can happen in personal relationships, at work, in social groups, or even in broader societal systems.

Being devalued often shows up as:

👉 Being ignored or dismissed (rejection)

👉 Having your achievements or opinions minimized (overlooked)

👉 Being taken for granted (unappreciated)

👉 Being consistently criticized or compared to others (verbally abused, judged)

👉 Caused to feel invisible, not good enough or easily replaceable (abandonment)

✨️🕊Healing from Devaluation🕊✨️

—🙏Therapy, counseling, inner healing prayer ministry, mind renewal, reframing can help unpack and heal those wounds.

—🙏Surrounding yourself with affirming people who see and appreciate your worth.🤍💯

—🙏Practicing self-validation—reminding yourself of your value, even if others don’t.

—🙏Setting boundaries to protect your emotional space from those who consistently devalue you.

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💔DEVALUED: THE ROOT OF MOST TRAUMA💔

The root of most emotional trauma (neglect, abandonment, rejection, physical/sexual/verbal abuse, etc) is a result of being devalued or maybe in some cases the perception of being devalued.

PERCEIVED VS REAL

Our feelings, perception, experiences can & will lie to us. Maybe a good example of this is someone with a wounding (unhealed past) of rejection or abandonment to which they easily view and/or manufacture the belief, feeling, or perception they are being rejected/abandoned when in reality that is not actually happening at all. Any subtlety triggers paranoia, fear, offense or an emotional response within them. Whats being triggered has an orgin. Inner healing ministry pursues and seeks out the origin rather than trying to help someone just manage all the triggering. Emotional and behavioral management is good and everything but healing, processing and reframing it is superior. Why manage something for the rest of your life when Jesus can heal it?

Okay back to the main topic. Think about this for a sec. Being devalued is the complete opposite of what we are created and designed for. Most everything that goes against the original intent & design of what something was created for brings some level of harm, distortion, pain, or disillusionment. We were designed to have & be VALUED.

Being valued is at the core of every healthy relationship. Your immense value fueled Jesus to sacrificially offer up his life in exchange for yours.

So what's the solution to being devalued? Let's simply reverse engineer this. I reversal of being devalued is rooted in LOVE aka "expressing value and worth" to & for others. If you love someone you, you communicate (in some form) VALUE to them. If you love and value your children you protect them. They are precious and valuable.

So LOVE & VALUE....We all need it, we are all designed for it... we all crave it and Jesus has the best supply of it

02/13/2025

Thank you David for an opportunity to support you in drawing closer to the Lord for breakthrough and healing 🙏 ✨️