11/20/2025
Thanksgiving & Mealtime Challenges:
The holidays are a beautiful time for family, practicing gratitude, and of course, big meals. However, for some children on the autism spectrum, Thanksgiving dinner can feel overwhelming. If your child struggles with eating, textures, or change in routine, here are some ways to make the feast more comfortable and inclusive:
Plan ahead: Let your child know what’s changing ahead of time. Explain that there may be new dishes, more people, or different seating.
Offer familiar foods: Include at least one trusted item your child enjoys (mashed potatoes, roasted veggies, plain turkey). This establishes comfort amidst the novelty.
Introduce new foods gently: Serve small portions of new dishes alongside familiar favorites so they feel less pressure.
Create a calm space: It's a busy time, set aside a quiet spot where your child can eat with fewer distractions or sensory triggers.
Be patient and flexible: Not every battle needs to be won on Thanksgiving. Keep your main goal in mind, whether it's connection, sharing, or feeling part of the family, not forcing full plate clean-ups.