Creative Mediated Solutions

Creative Mediated Solutions We help people reach creative solutions to problems that arise in life and business. Let's all think mediation before litigation. Cooperation over competition.

There is no area that affects us quite the way our family does. In fact we often define ourselves by these relationships. It is human nature to want to provide for, protect, and strengthen our families. We all face difficulties; the way we deal with these situations will determine the future health and strength of the family unit and all individual members of the family. At the Gilstrap Law Firm a

nd Mediation Center we strive to help you achieve your goals to provide, protect and strengthen your family. Whether that is by planning for your family when you are no longer here; offering representation through divorce, custody, or child support; or Family Law Mediation, we are here to help you through this time. The courts can be a daunting place, and legal issues can be intimidating when you are not accustomed to the system. We have helped many families and we understand the process. We will listen to you, explain the different options, and assist you in determining what will work best for you and your family.

10/18/2024

Every conflict is unique, and so is every mediation.

That’s why I’m using AI to create personalized mediation paths.

By analyzing what works best for each case, AI helps us tailor the process to fit your specific needs.

No more cookie-cutter approaches—just solutions that work for you. Let’s make mediation work in your favor!"

10/11/2024

Mediation can resolve any disagreement by guiding the parties through their emotions and helping them approach the situation with clear, logical thinking.

Rushing through this process often denies parties the time they need to fully process the emotions that inevitably surface during mediation.

By allowing space for emotional reflection, we give them the opportunity to make decisions that are not just reactive, but thoughtful and considered. This leads to more sustainable, mutually satisfying resolutions.

10/03/2024

Imagine a world where cooperation outweighs competition.

Our mediation philosophy focuses on bringing people together to resolve disputes in a way that transforms relationships and communities.

Whether it's family, neighbors, or business partners, we believe mediation can change the way we approach conflict.
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10/01/2024

"Did you know that mediation doesn’t have to be overwhelming? Our process breaks it down into shorter, manageable sessions, giving everyone time to think and reflect. A calmer, thoughtful approach leads to better outcomes for all. Ready to explore a different way to resolve disputes? Let’s talk. "

09/27/2024

Mediation Rap

Verse 1:
Yo, I step into the room, tension’s thick as a knife,
People ready for war like it’s fight or flight,
But I’m the one with the mic, let’s calm it down,
Mediating this heat before it burns to the ground.

You’re caught up in the noise, rage in your eyes,
But I see through the lies, let’s strategize,
It ain’t about who’s right, man, that’s the illusion,
I’m here to solve, not to fuel confusion.

You want a fight? Nah, I’ll give you insight,
Break it down into pieces, make wrongs feel right,
You don’t gotta agree, but we gotta find peace,
Mediation’s the key, let’s unlock the release.

Chorus:
You want beef? Nah, we here to talk it out,
No fists, no threats, let’s walk it out,
Middle ground found when the anger cools,
Mediation’s the power, no need for fools.
We ain’t throwin’ shade, just clearing the skies,
Gina G keepin' calm while emotions rise.

Verse 2:
Ayo, emotions high, like a kite in the breeze,
But I’m here to defuse, bring you both to your knees,
Not with force, but with logic, keeping it tight,
No need to meet, I’ll handle it right—no need to ignite.

See, life ain’t a battle where somebody wins,
It’s about fixing the cracks, where the healing begins,
You got family, neighbors, contracts to keep,
I mediate the drama, so nobody weeps.

I ain’t picking a side, man, I don’t play judge,
Just guiding you through it so you ain’t holding a grudge,
Trust in the process, we’ll settle this clean,
Like a surgeon with words, I’m sharp and I’m keen.

Chorus:
You want beef? Nah, we here to talk it out,
No fists, no threats, let’s walk it out,
Middle ground found when the anger cools,
Mediation’s the power, no need for fools.
We ain’t throwin’ shade, just clearing the skies,
Mediators keep calm while emotions rise.

Bridge:
Yeah, you feel that heat, it’s burnin’ inside,
But hold up, just breathe, put the anger aside,
It’s not about who’s strong or who can fight,
It’s about making peace so you can sleep at night.

Verse 3:
I’ve been in the trenches, seen the worst go down,
Now I flip the script, I’m the calm in this town,
Hostage to hope, we’ll find common ground,
Take the weight off your chest, let it go, profound.

No more drama, just settle and move,
Mediation’s the future, yeah, it’s how we groove,
Let me guide you through it, show you what’s real,
Once you talk it out, you’ll know how to heal.

Chorus:
You want beef? Nah, we here to talk it out,
No fists, no threats, let’s walk it out,
Middle ground found when the anger cools,
Mediation’s the power, no need for fools.
We ain’t throwin’ shade, just clearing the skies,
Gina G keepin’ it calm while emotions rise.

09/25/2024

Excited to attend Houston Millennials event tomorrow! I’ll be telling people about how modern mediation can help resolve conflicts with less stress and more understanding—whether it’s with family, neighbors, or business partners. Feel free to connect with me for a quick chat or a free consultation! .

09/10/2024

Struggling with a business dispute? Mediation can help!

Disagreements between businesses happen, but they don’t have to end in a courtroom. If you’re dealing with a contract issue, partnership conflict, or any other B2B disagreement, our mediation service offers a better solution.

Instead of getting stuck in expensive and lengthy litigation, mediation helps you resolve issues quickly, cost-effectively, and—most importantly—without burning bridges.

Why mediation?
🔹 Preserve your business relationships
🔹 Keep disputes private and confidential
🔹 Save time and money compared to litigation
🔹 Maintain control over the outcome
🔹 Get creative, business-focused solutions that work for both parties

With over 15 years of experience, we know how to guide businesses to resolutions that benefit everyone. Our approach is flexible, breaking mediation into short sessions so both sides have time to think, reflect, and make smart decisions.

Let us help you find a path forward that keeps your business moving! Reach out today to learn how we can assist with your business-to-business disputes.

Let’s work together to resolve your conflicts and protect your business relationships!

Send a message to learn more

08/29/2024

A young couple, both of whom are on the autism spectrum, found themselves facing a custody battle over their child. Their attorneys reached out to me for mediation.

Three deeply involved and supportive grandparents were also part of the process.

Over the course of four months, we worked together, and I’m pleased to share that we’ve just signed a mediated settlement agreement.

Both parents reached an agreement and have the support of all grandparents. Apparently, many "family meetings" took place on both sides these last few months.

These young adults simply needed more time and patience to navigate this challenging and emotional situation.

I’m incredibly proud of everyone involved.

Mediation has the power to set people up for success, while litigation often leads to more litigation.

08/19/2024

In my experience in mediation and practicing law, I have realized that we all think and process differently. These differences can sometimes make conflict resolution feel like an uphill battle, especially when emotions are running high.

Traditional mediation often tries to address everything in one marathon session, which can last four, six, or even eight hours.
While this approach might seem efficient, it can also be overwhelming, leading to rushed decisions, miscommunication, and unresolved feelings.

At Creative Mediated Solutions, we take a different approach—one that acknowledges the need for time, reflection, and thoughtful decision-making. Rather than trying to solve everything in one long stretch, we break down the process into several shorter, focused sessions.

Most of these sessions are 30-45 minute video calls with one party at a time or simple messages through our client portal.

I want to share with you why this method is not only more manageable but also more effective.

First, let’s talk about the emotional aspect of mediation. Conflicts, whether they involve family, business, or community matters, are emotionally charged by nature.

When parties are forced to sit in a room for hours on end, trying to reach a resolution, it can become exhausting.

Fatigue sets in, tempers may flare, and people start to feel pressured to agree just to end the session. This can result in decisions that aren’t fully considered or that one or both parties may later regret.

I never want anyone to sign one of my Mediated Settlement Agreements just because they “can’t fight anymore” or are “scared to go to trial.”

By breaking the process into shorter sessions, we give everyone involved the time they need to process their emotions. Each session becomes a manageable step rather than an overwhelming ordeal.

Participants can reflect on what was discussed and come back with a clearer mind and a better understanding of their own needs and the needs of the other party. This leads to more thoughtful, deliberate decisions, and ultimately, more sustainable outcomes.

Another key benefit of shorter sessions is that they promote better communication.

When people are tired or stressed, they’re less likely to communicate effectively. They might miss important details or fail to express their true concerns.

By spacing out the sessions, we allow communication to unfold naturally over time. Participants have the opportunity to revisit topics, clarify misunderstandings, and build on previous discussions.

This results in a deeper understanding and a stronger foundation for resolution.

Our approach also reduces the overall stress of the mediation process. Conflict resolution is already challenging, and adding the pressure of a long, drawn-out session can make it even more so.
By pacing the process, we create a more relaxed environment where participants feel less rushed and more in control.

This not only makes the experience more pleasant but also more productive, as people are more likely to engage constructively when they feel at ease.

Moreover, the flexibility of our session-based approach is particularly appealing to those with busy schedules.

We understand that not everyone can dedicate an entire day to mediation. By offering shorter sessions, we make the process more accessible and accommodating to those who have other commitments.

This flexibility also ensures that participants are fully present and engaged during each session, rather than being distracted or drained by the demands of a long day.

In conclusion, our commitment to breaking down the mediation process into several shorter sessions reflects our belief that the best resolutions are those that are reached thoughtfully, collaboratively, and without unnecessary pressure.

By giving parties the time they need to process, reflect, and communicate, we help them arrive at agreements that are not only fair but also lasting.

Mediation is about finding common ground and creating solutions that work for everyone involved—and sometimes, that simply takes time.

I look forward to helping more people experience the benefits of a paced, thoughtful mediation process.

Think Mediation before Litigation!
06/24/2024

Think Mediation before Litigation!

02/29/2024

Y'all, in a recent mediation two parents were arguing about weekend visits with their children. This is pretty common in family law. This case had some interesting arguments involved. Let me know what you would have done.

Dad is that typical small town football dad. He played football for the same high school their three sons will be attending in a few years. He and the three sons enjoy attending Friday night football games.

Mom doesn't really care about football. She did not grow up in the same town and doesn't have the same attachment to Friday Night Football. However, she will take the boys to a game or two each season as a treat to them.

The boys get upset if Mom can't make the time to take them to a game. Dad is willing to take them to every game but half of the games are on Moms weekend. Mom does most of the parenting work, she is the full time parent. Dad gets the kids on his weekends but doesn't really do any of the hard parenting.

Mom doesn't want to give up any weekends because she already feels as though she gets screwed out of the fun time with the kids. Dad doesn't want to change the custody schedule to 50/50 because his work schedule only allows him to have time to spend with them on the weekends.

During mediation they agreed to:

1. The kids will spend every weekend with Dad from the last weekend in August until Thanksgiving week.

2. The kids are with Mom every Thanksgiving and every Christmas. They are with Dad the last four days of every Christmas break.

3. This is not a day for day trade. However, it is what works best for this family dynamic.

When you mediate your problems, you can work on coming to an agreement that everyone can live with even if it is not exactly what anyone wanted.

When you go to the government and ask them for help in solving your problems you are more than likely going to get an answer based on what our legislature has decided is best for the typical family.

I have never met a "typical family" we all have our own unique issues that need to be treated as such.

Think Mediation B4 Litigation.

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