Silvina Rearte Counseling, PLLC

11/17/2025

Why can vulnerability be scary?

1. Fear of Rejection: Being vulnerable means showing our true selves, including imperfections and fears. We worry that others might judge, criticize, or reject us when we do that.


2. Fear of Being Hurt: Opening up emotionally can make us feel exposed and fragile. We’re afraid of getting hurt, disappointed, or betrayed.


3. Loss of Control: Vulnerability means letting go of control and uncertainty. Not knowing how others will respond can feel risky and uncomfortable.


4. Fear of Weakness: Society often equates vulnerability with weakness or incompetence, so many people avoid it to protect their image or pride.


5. Past Trauma: Previous experiences where vulnerability led to pain or betrayal can make us guarded and fearful of opening up again.


Despite the fear, vulnerability is essential for genuine connection, growth, and healing. It’s scary because it’s real — and that’s exactly why it’s so powerful.

As a therapist, I encourage you to approach vulnerability with curiosity and self-compassion. Explore your fears in a safe, supportive space where you can express your true self without judgment.

11/04/2025

11/03/2025

Usually people who move with humility often carry the deepest wisdom. They don’t need to announce their gifts — their presence speaks for them. You’ll find them listening more than they talk, observing more than they prove.
Humility is what keeps the door to growth open. The moment we believe we know it all, we stop learning. But those who stay humble — who approach their craft, their path, their purpose with reverence — continue to expand. They refine not just their skills, but their spirit.
True masters never stop being students. They understand that greatness isn’t a title, but a rhythm — a dance between knowing and not knowing, between confidence and curiosity.
The more humble the heart, the more space there is for light to enter.

10/27/2025

Almost a decade of showing up (with a prior decade of dedication to nonprofit organizations work + 7 years of University studies). Years of holding space and evolving alongside beautiful souls who trust me on supporting them on their paths. Years of healing, expansion, and deep connection. Grateful beyond words for every step of this path. 

Behind every session, there’s so much more than meets the eye: everyday administrative work and paperwork, the constant learning to stay current and effective, and the quiet victories that don’t make it to social media.

Private practice isn’t just about seeing clients— it’s about creating safe spaces with heart, building systems, making a meaningful contribution to society and navigating the unpredictability of life while holding space for others. 

Every step, every struggle, every triumph has shaped not only my practice, but the person I am today. 26 years in the path of a psychotherapist, I’m grateful for the trust clients place in me, the growth we share together, and the journey that continues. 

The behind the scenes story, It’s a story of persistence, dedication, full presence, and unwavering commitment to assisting others that touches my soul every single day. Private practice is hard work, beautiful, humbling, and rewarding—all at once. 🎂 🎉🎈

10/20/2025

Fear is a natural part of being human. It is part of an ancient survival mechanism of our body and at times it can save us from real danger. However, many other times, It shows up as worry, self-doubt, hesitation, or even that tight feeling in our chest or other parts of the body. Unless is a call for attention of something that could really hurt us, most of the times fear it’s a messenger, pointing us toward the places where we can grow.
The first step is noticing it. Naming it. Understand where it comes from. Then, instead of letting it control you, take small steps forward anyway. Each act of courage, no matter how tiny, weakens its hold and opens space for growth.
Fear is not the opposite of growth—it’s a guide. When we face it mindfully, it transforms from a block into a bridge, leading us to courage, creativity, and a deeper connection with ourselves. Fear can become a beneficial energy force if we work with it.

10/14/2025

When we feel safe our nervous system can finally relax. The body softens, the breath deepens, and the walls we built to survive begin to lower. With safety, connection becomes possible.

Trust is what allows vulnerability to unfold. It tells us, “You can show who you really are, and you will still be met with care.” Safety and trust create the conditions for openness. They turn closeness from something that feels dangerous into something that feels peaceful. 

Keeping our word, speaking honestly, listening deeply, respecting boundaries, admitting mistakes and repairing — are some small acts that create safety.

Being emotionally present, showing empathy, and allowing vulnerability invite hearts to open. Over time, patience and consistency turn ordinary moments into sacred connections.

10/06/2025

Honesty is an invitation to real connection, not the illusion of it.
Honesty may not always be comfortable, but it’s the foundation of trust — both with others and within ourselves.