04/14/2026
A piece of advice I donโt recommend before a reading:
โSay nothing and keep your body language completely neutral.โ
I know this advice is often given with good intentions, and I understand the reasoning behind it. But in my experience, it can actually interrupt the natural flow of the reading.
A reading works best as a three-way connection:
-the medium
-your loved ones in Spirit
-and you
Your openness, presence, and willingness to engage are all part of what helps the session unfold naturally.
Of course, Iโll always be an advocate for healthy skepticism and discernment. But I also encourage you to come into your session as open as you can be, rather than feeling like you need to โtestโ every moment.
The goal isnโt to sit frozen; itโs to allow space for connection, validation, healing, and conversation to happen.
That openness can make all the difference in what comes through. โจ
Working mediums, Iโd love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this ๐