09/24/2018
9/24/12
Do you remember where you were when you heard that Tyler MacLeod had died?
I was home. I saw a post that another teen had written on facebook - RIP Tyler MacLeod. I tried desperately to reach Nancy. I called Dave everyone I could think of. Could it have been a car accident I had not heard about? Finally, I reached Kim, she confirmed the worst. Tyler had passed.
In shock, I met other Moms at Melindas. Moms whose children had grown up with the MacLeod boys. Barbi, Jennifer we talked, we cried, we were in shock. We tried to make sense of it. How could this happen? We were strong women, raising strong families. We were PTA presidents, coaches, leaders among our children's clubs, team and schools. We were involved. We had educated our children, they knew the evils of drugs. But had we? We had talked about underage drinking, talked about pot - but he**in wasn't on our radar. We never imagined it was in our schools, in backpacks, on our Main Streets. Accessible to anyone with $10.
But here we are 6 years later. We all know kids who have been in rehab, kids who have died, kids who are hooked, kids whose futures are destroyed - sometimes with no other options these kids are on the street, homeless and strung out.
What are we to do? There are heroes among us. Jodi Barber working tirelessly to get kids in rehab, picking kids up off the streets. What can we do as this addiction decimates this young generation? 72,000 last year lost to this. We know the numbers are most likely staggeringly higher, as many deaths get reported in other ways. If an addict dies from pneumonia brought on by he**in, it is not an overdose. The death rate is much higher.
I listened to an expert this past weekend talk about the typical kids getting hooked on he**in. Sometimes they get hurt, a broken bone - and are prescribed painkillers. They get hooked. They need more. They usually raid the home medicine cabinet. When the prescription runs out they buy a few pills @ $80 each. When they can't afford that, and really are looking for the next high - because now they usually need it - they turn to he**in. The high is euphoric. At $10 a bag which can last a few days, it is readily affordable.
At Tyler's funeral, we yelled NEVER AGAIN. We thought we could make a change. We held fundraisers, we tried to educate the younger children. Tragically we were wrong. Drug use has not gone away.
What can we do? Awareness is the one thing we can all share. If we save one child from starting, we can save one family from this nightmare - we have done the right thing. If Tyler's death has taught us anything it is that no one is safe from this, no one.
Please share your stories.
God Bless the MacLeod family.
Red for Tyler ❤️