The Huntington Relationship Center

The Huntington Relationship Center I am an Advanced Imago Relationship Therapist and Workshop Presenter in private practice. My specialty is with couples, families and individuals.

Counseling Couples, Individuals & Families in Huntington, Long Island, New York.

❤ Imago Relationship Therapy
❤ Couples
❤ Individual
❤ Family
❤ Pre-Marital
❤ Marriage
❤ Divorce

Acknowledge & Process Emotions in Therapy I teach as a senior adjunct professor at the Adelphi School of Social Work. I also work with businesses in order to help create a solid communication process between employer and employees. I am truly blessed to be able to assist people on their journey, while also examining themselves in relationship to the people in their lives. I have been a Huntington business owner for 16 1/2 years.

09/29/2025

Passing off in , often referred to as "weaponized incompetence," involves one partner pretending to be of performing a task to avoid their share of household duties, which can create significant and in a .

This behavior is a tactic that equitable and can harm the relationship's foundation.

is a form of shared responsibilities by to be bad at tasks like folding laundry, loading the dishwasher, or tidying up, thereby forcing the other partner to take over to ensure the chores are completed correctly.

The practice can lead to an imbalance in the division of labor, where one partner feels , potentially eroding respect and admiration between .

To address this, are encouraged to have open to foster a where both partners take responsibility for needs and adjusting behaviors.

A healthy approach involves , creating a shared list of responsibilities, and ensuring both partners feel their are and according to their individual circumstances and capabilities.

09/25/2025

Are you texting your partner too much?

Over-texting in can significantly damage the connection between partners by fostering and emotional , as constantly messaging and anxiously awaiting replies can signal and over-attachment, reflecting an unhealthy attachment style rooted in insecurity.

This can lead to one becoming emotionally reliant on love-struck messages, creating an imbalance where the need for constant digital overrides personal freedom and space.

The absence of tone, facial expressions, and body language in makes it easy to misinterpret intentions, turning innocuous messages into sources of ; for instance, a simple "I don't know what you mean" can be read as sarcastic or dismissive, even if it was meant as a genuine question. This lack of context often leads to that escalate quickly, especially when partners are unable to clarify their meaning in real time.

The delay in responses can also breed , as one partner may feel or when the other takes hours to reply, leading to a cycle of calculated delays and emotional withdrawal.

Furthermore, the time available to craft a response in allows individuals to present their "best version" through carefully worded messages and strategic use of emojis, which can create an unrealistic portrayal of affection or interest that doesn't reflect genuine feelings. This curated can make the relationship feel artificial, as the dynamic is based on polished texts rather than authentic, spontaneous .

Over-reliance on texting also hinders the development of essential communication skills, particularly the ability to handle difficult face-to-face, which is crucial for and emotional repair in relationships.

Without the opportunity to hear tone, see expressions, and respond in the moment, misunderstandings go uncorrected, and grows.

Ultimately, while texting may increase the frequency of contact, it often diminishes the quality of communication, leading to and a weakening of the relationship's foundation.

Are you tired of the nagging?Nagging in a is a recurring pattern of repetitive or that often stems from unmet emot...
09/23/2025

Are you tired of the nagging?

Nagging in a is a recurring pattern of repetitive or that often stems from unmet emotional needs, such as a desire for , , or feeling valued, rather than the specific task being requested.

This can create a cycle of and , leading to a power imbalance and eroding respect between .

Nagging often arises when one partner feels emotionally and uses repetitive requests as a form of "protest behavior" to re-establish , rooted in of loss or .

The core issue behind nagging is typically not the superficial task (like doing dishes) but an underlying need to feel , , and .

To stop nagging, individuals should avoid "you" statements that assign and instead express their using "I" statements.

Establishing clear, negotiated with agreed-upon consequences and timelines can reduce resistance and prevent nagging.

If nagging persists, seeking from a can provide strategies to address the underlying issues and .

Phrases That Save Relationships:❤️ “If it bothers you, it matters to me.”❤️ “I still love you even when we’re upset.”❤️ ...
09/15/2025

Phrases That Save Relationships:

❤️ “If it bothers you, it matters to me.”

❤️ “I still love you even when we’re upset.”

❤️ “I don’t want to assume, so I thought I’d ask.”

08/14/2025

Most people don’t randomly decide to avoid difficult conversations …..instead, they’ve learned to stay away from conflict as a way to avoid painful feelings they haven’t yet learned how to manage. Still, avoiding topics leaves the other partner left in the dark, confused, and/or unresolved…..feelings which don’t foster relationship closeness.
At the same time, there are times when it makes sense to postpone a topic. Sometimes the timing is off, one or both partners are too triggered to address the topic with emotional safety, or someone needs space to get more clear about what they think and feel.
It’s not always easy to know when it’s avoidance and when it’s healthy postponing (and sometimes it’s some of both), but here are some guidelines. ❤️

During couples counseling, Robin Newman aims to disarm conflict, and in doing so, increase respect, intimacy, and affect...
08/05/2025

During couples counseling, Robin Newman aims to disarm conflict, and in doing so, increase respect, intimacy, and affection.

She helps couples recognize and communicate their personal issues in a healthy, respectful way.

Instead of entering a power struggle, couples talk openly, reach resolutions, and also learn to cultivate empathy towards one another.

Contact The Huntington Relationship Center Today

148 East Main Street, Huntington, NY 11743

https://huntingtonrelationshiptherapy.com/services/couples-therapy/

Childhood emotional neglect is when deprive a child of basic needs like not providing adequate nutrition, supervision,...
08/04/2025

Childhood emotional neglect is when deprive a child of basic needs like not providing adequate nutrition, supervision, healthcare, clothing, housing, or any other physical, emotional, social, educational, or safety needs.

occurs in families w/ unrealistically high expectations, or few opportunities for attentive listening, in which a child’s emotions are invalidated to the point s/he doubts themselves.

Symptoms:

🔻Being numb or cut off from feelings
🔻Low self-esteem
🔻Perfectionism
🔻Easily overwhelmed or discouraged
🔻Feeling like there’s something missing, but not sure what it is
🔻Pronounced sensitivity to rejection
🔻Lack of clarity of others’ expectations & your own

Some experienced emotional neglect as themselves. Most parents are well-intentioned & do the best they can however some styles are associated with emotional :

➖Authoritarian: parents want their kids to follow the rules & have little time or inclination to listen to their child’s feelings & needs. As adults, these children either rebel against authority or become submissive.

➖Narcissistic: parents with qualities feel the world revolves around them, making life all about the parent’s needs instead of the child’s. As adults, these children have difficulty identifying & meeting their own needs. They may feel that they don’t deserve to have their needs met.

➖Perfectionistic: parents often believe their kids can do more or be better. Their children grow up to be perfectionists & set unrealistically high expectations for themselves, resulting in around feelings of never being good enough.

➖Permissive: parents that have a laissez-faire attitude & let their kids fend for themselves. As adults, these children struggle with setting boundaries & limits.

➖Absent: parents can be removed from a child’s life for reasons like , , , working long hours, or frequent travel for work. Children of raise themselves & become overly responsible & overburdened.

https://huntingtonrelationshiptherapy.com/recovering-from-childhood-emotional-neglect/

Long Island Counseling Services with Robin Newman, LCSW-R, PC, owner of The Huntington Relationship Center❤ Imago Relati...
07/17/2025

Long Island Counseling Services with Robin Newman, LCSW-R, PC, owner of The Huntington Relationship Center

❤ Imago Relationship Therapy
❤ Couples Counseling
❤ Individual Counseling
❤ Family Therapy Sessions
❤ Pre-Marital Sessions
❤ Marriage Counseling
❤ Divorce Counseling

As a licensed clinical social worker and Imago relationship therapist, I assist individuals and couples in repairing ruptured connections with partners, children, family, friendships, and most importantly, with themselves.

The Huntington Relationship Therapy Center

Robin Newman, LCSW-R, PC

148 E. Main Street
Huntington, NY 11743

(631) 421-4701

https://huntingtonrelationshiptherapy.com/

06/18/2025

When the topic is heated, there’s a lot of value in slowing down, giving it some space, and coming together to talk about it intentionally. It’s not always easy to wait, and nobody should wait indefinitely, but rushing it can backfire.
Also, approaching your partner in this way, with openness and curiosity, helps meet their attachment need to know their needs matter to you....and when attachment needs are met, conversations are set up for success.




Learn different ways of thinking, behaving, and reacting to situations to help you feel less and with anxiety .Thin...
06/18/2025

Learn different ways of thinking, behaving, and reacting to situations to help you feel less and with anxiety .

Things you'll learn with :

✔Coping skills
✔Self-awareness
✔Communication techniques
✔Developing self esteem
✔Reducing stress
✔Behavioral changes
✔Gaining control over thoughts
✔Healthy habits
✔Enhanced emotional regulation
✔Identifying underlying causes
✔Resolving conflict

Robin Newman, LCSW-R, PC
148 East Main St., ,
(631) 421-4701

As a & , Robin assists individuals & couples in repairing ruptured connections with partners, children, family, friendships, and most importantly, with themselves.

https://huntingtonrelationshiptherapy.com/

What is ?Dissociation is a process that involves from one’s thoughts, feelings, body, memories, and/or sense of sel...
05/19/2025

What is ?

Dissociation is a process that involves from one’s thoughts, feelings, body, memories, and/or sense of self.

It can occur as a temporary or persistent state, depending on what an individual is trying to . This experience can range in severity, from just “checking out”, difficulty focusing ( ), to heavy / use.

Dissociation is the brain’s way of with or events/memories, helping to protect the from being .

Dissociation can be caused by a variety of factors, including trauma, , and other overwhelming situations where a person cannot deal with the reality in front of them. It can be triggered by feeling in a difficult situation, especially those involving overwhelming . This feeling of being trapped can activate the “freeze response,” a defense mechanism where the body becomes , often linked to dissociation. In situations where individuals feel physically or unable to move, the body may dissociate to protect itself from insurmountable distress.

Types of Dissociation:

: Feeling detached from one’s own body/mind, as if observing oneself from the outside.

: Feeling disconnected from the distressing environment, making it seem unreal or distorted.

: Loss of traumatic memories, usually related to abuse or stressful events.

Confusion: Feeling unsure about one’s identity or developing multiple identities.

Numbing: Feeling emotionally numb or detached from most experiences.

Treatment for dissociation typically involves , such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) or trauma-focused therapy. These can help individuals understand and cope with experiences, develop healthy mechanisms, and improve their overall .

https://huntingtonrelationshiptherapy.com/what-is-dissociation/

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148 East Main Street, Suite 102
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11743

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Wednesday 1pm - 9:30pm
Thursday 1pm - 9:30pm
Friday 1pm - 6pm
Saturday 2pm - 4pm

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Robin Newman, LCSW-R, PC

Individual, Couples & Family Therapist - Huntington, Long Island, NY

- Licensed clinical social worker - Imago Relationship therapist - Adjunct professor at Adelphi University, Graduate School of Social Work

I am an Advanced Imago Relationship Therapist and Workshop Presenter in private practice. I teach as an adjunct professor at the Adelphi School of Social Work. I also work with businesses in order to help create a solid communication process between employer and employees My speciality are couples, families and individuals. I am truly blessed to be able to assist people on their journey, while also examining themselves in relationship to the people in their lives. My other speciality is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I have been a Huntington business owner for 16 1/2 years.