Deborah Winters, Clinical Therapist, Parent Coach, Author

09/24/2025

Ever wonder “Why does my child DO that?!” 🤯

Here’s the thing: the more you understand why your child is acting a certain way, the easier it is to stay calm — and to actually teach them how to change that behavior for good.

That’s why I created Decode Behavior: A Calm Parent’s Guide.
✔️ The science behind your child’s behavior
✔️ 2 simple action steps to respond with calm + connection

📩 Drop the word “DECODE” below and I’ll send it to you FREE!

08/05/2025

Proud to be a contributor to the Northport Journal today. This piece is close to my heart—because constant distraction is costing our kids more than we realize. As a therapist and mom, I see how hard it is for families to stay emotionally connected in a world that’s always online.

If you’ve ever wondered why your child shuts down—or why you're feeling more distant than you'd like—this one’s for you. 💛

Read it here: https://northportjournal.com/voices/scrolling-past-feelings-the-hidden-cost-of-constant-distraction

When screens replace discomfort, kids lose more than we realize.

07/31/2025

My father-in-law snapped this photo of me working on vacation and said,
“You work so hard.”

And it’s true—but not in the way you might think.

I’m not just hustling to check off tasks or chase numbers.
I’m working hard for YOU—for every parent who feels like they’ve tried everything and still ends up yelling, feeling guilty, or completely worn out.

Every email I write, every lesson I create, every call I hold…
It’s all so I can help you build your House of Harmony, one brick at a time. 🧱

Because I believe with every fiber of my being that family life can feel more connected, more respectful, more peaceful.
And it doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful.

💛 One simple way I’m sharing that this week is through my free eBook:
“Building Your House of Harmony™”—a parenting blueprint for this generation of kids and teens.

It’s my gift to you in exchange for an honest review on Amazon.

📚 Tomorrow is the LAST day to grab it for free!
👉 Comment the word “e-book” for your free Amazon link

Let’s keep building, together. 💛

07/31/2025

My father-in-law snapped this photo of me working on vacation and said,
“You work so hard.”

And it’s true—but not in the way you might think.

I’m not just hustling to check off tasks or chase numbers.
I’m working hard for YOU—for every parent who feels like they’ve tried everything and still ends up yelling, feeling guilty, or completely worn out.

Every email I write, every lesson I create, every call I hold…
It’s all so I can help you build your House of Harmony, one brick at a time. 🧱

Because I believe with every fiber of my being that family life can feel more connected, more respectful, more peaceful.
And it doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful.

💛 One simple way I’m sharing that this week is through my free eBook:
“Building Your House of Harmony™”—a parenting blueprint for this generation of kids and teens.

It’s my gift to you in exchange for an honest review on Amazon.

📚 Tomorrow is the LAST day to grab it for free!
👉 Message me the word “e-book” for your free Amazon link

Let’s keep building, together. 💛

07/28/2025

Feeling like you’ve tried everything—and nothing’s working? 😩

You’re not alone. Today’s kids are growing up in a totally different world. And the old parenting tools just aren’t cutting it.

That’s why I wrote Building Your House of Harmony™—a fresh approach for modern parents raising this generation of kids and teens.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:
🧠 Talk about tough topics like anxiety, screen time, disrespect and more…
🗣 Set limits without yelling, nagging, or bribing
🏡 Create calm routines and shared responsibility at home
💬 Build better communication and connection—even when things get hard

It’s for burnt-out parents who are ready to trade chaos for cooperation—and it’s FREE on Amazon today through August 1 in exchange for an honest review.

👇 Drop “ebook” in the comments and I’ll DM you the link!

Let’s build a more peaceful home—together. 💛

02/20/2025

Why is it that parents often say they don't want to yell or nag, but still find themselves doing it? Read comments to find out. 👇

11/13/2024

Two new FREE classes inside The Confident Moms Club on Facebook this week. If you’re a mom looking for free resources from experts to help you feel more confident, why haven’t you joined yet?

Wednesday 11/13 @ 12:30pm est
“Natural Approaches to Maternal Mental Health and Wellness.”

Thursday 11/14 @ 12:30pm est
What to Look Out for With Early Childhood Language and Communication .”

can’t join us live? Replays are always available same day.

We have over 40 classes inside The Confident Mom’s Club. Message the word FREE for your class link!