05/07/2026
There are some children who grow up carrying far more than the world ever sees.
Samantha, Reagan’s big sister graduated college this week, and we could not be more proud of her. She is intelligent, grounded, compassionate, and strong. In many ways, she has helped parent her sister for years.
This week while the world saw another student walking across the stage, earning a degree, I saw years of quiet sacrifice, patience, resilience, and love that no diploma could ever fully measure.
I wish more people understood that disability does not impact only one person, it shapes an entire family system.
The world she is stepping into feels heavy and scary especially for people her age, and as her mom I worry about all the things mothers worry about. But more than anything I am proud of her and of the balance she carries, strength and empathy, boundaries and kindness, resilience and grace. For her sister she is a grounding presence and a safe place.
She is a beautiful combination of both her parents, shaped by a great love for her sister but she is ultimately and wonderfully herself. And she is loved fiercely by her mama.