08/21/2025
Advocating for yourself can be exhausting, especially when the systems we’re navigating weren’t designed with our bodies in mind.
If you’ve ever walked into a doctor’s office and felt unheard, rushed, or overlooked, you’re not alone.
Many of us, especially those in larger bodies, Black and Brown bodies, or disabled bodies, carry the trauma of being dismissed, misdiagnosed, or ignored.
So how do we keep showing up for ourselves when it feels so hard?
Here’s what we remind ourselves:
We are allowed to ask questions.
We are allowed to bring notes.
We are allowed to advocate without apologizing.
And we are allowed to walk away if a provider cannot or will not honor our care.
Even when our voice shakes.
Even when we need backup.
Even when it feels like the system isn’t built for us, we still get to take up space in it.
We are not too much.
We are not overreacting.
We are allowed to name what we need and expect to be treated with care, dignity, and respect.
If you’ve ever had to advocate for yourself in a medical space, I invite you to share what you’ve learned. We need each other here.
And if you’re looking for tools, support, and community to help you feel more confident and cared for on this journey, you’re invited to join us in The Body Relationship® Circle.
Together, we practice honoring our bodies, our needs, and our truths without apology.
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