10/03/2022
Happy national midwifery week! ā¤ļø
I want to share the reason I decided to become a midwife. When I was in nursing school, my very first day of clinical in labor and delivery I felt this overwhelming feeling of accomplishment just being a student watching a baby be born. As students, we donāt do much and the fact that I felt that way and we only had 5 days of clinical in L&D told me this is where Iām meant to be.
Fast forward to role transition (the last few months before graduation), I was in L&D again and still absolutely loved it. Unfortunately, when I graduated no hospital in the area had an L&D position open so I went to the NICU instead.
While in the NICU, I realized I did not want to be stuck as a bedside nurse forever which in L&D thatās really your only option. Thatās when I decided to apply for midwifery school!!
The path I thought Iād take as a midwife has changed as Iāve gotten farther into school. I came to learn that I do not want to practice in a hospital because too many times have I seen women practically bullied into things to get their baby out. Hospitals have industrialized births or as they call it ādeliveriesā. When youāre there, youāre on their time and if youāre not making progress quick enough, they change that. For that reason and many others, I will be a homebirth midwife!
I try my best as a nurse to help these mommas keep to the birth plan they wanted. Sometimes, thatās not an option due to emergencies but when thereās no threat present, I advocate for them when they feel like they canāt.
No matter where the birth occurs, it is a BIRTH. We are not delivering anything.
-Abby
American College of Nurse-Midwives