05/16/2025
Friends, Letās talk about . Letās be honest, not all pregnant stories are the same. In fact, many people struggle to conceive. Itās not something people wants/likes to talk about and I get it. Itās vulnerable, itās affects you in so many ways. But the truth is, many couples struggles with and letās be clear itās not just the woman but too that is often not discussed.
Coming from non western country, which Iām sure many could relate, itās often taboo to discuss especially & quite often the woman blamed for the struggle the couple is facing, and as itās definitely not discussed enough. Iāve heard of so many stories as the struggle that women /couples have gone through and some of the stories comes from people very close to me.
Letās normalize Thai conversation in our community. Letās stop tip toeing around the conversation so we can get the education, resources and emotional support we need. I want to emphasize especially as , our faith keeps us grounded. Knowing that what youāre going through is a & we all get tested. Yes, it hurts, itās hard and heartbreaking what youāre going through as a woman and a couple, but know through the endless tears, frustrations, the endless maybe even multiple miscarriage, and on and on ⦠your Rab (Lord) is always NEAR, and you will be rewarded for every hardship. Itās His wisdom and though we may not understand it, continue praying for a blessed child, get the medical treatment if needed, do all that you could with still having deep and grounded Yaqueen ( certainty ) your Dua is being answered one way or another.