01/09/2026
Stress comes at us from so many places: the environment around us, social stressors and situational problems, physiological stress like changes during adolescence and menopause, sleep and lack of exercise, and also from our thoughts. Your appraisal of the situation influences your body’s response to stress. Once you decide that a situation is no longer dangerous, your brain stops sending emergency signals to your brain stem — stopping the panic messages. It takes three minutes for the fight-or-flight response to burn out. Even though we cannot change our circumstances or our initial reaction to them; we can learn to notice the stress response, develop resources to cope, and cue the relaxation response to promote the natural restorative response. Watch for cues such as changes in your heart rate, breathing rate, muscle tension, and blood pressure to expand awareness of your stress response.