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10/15/2024

Friends in California, this is important! Big Pharma is trying to eliminate access to critical nutritional supplements. Please sign this petition to stop this from happening. Please let your health conscious friends know about this. Ask them to sign too.

Glutathione is a super antioxidant. It's the foundation for health. Read more about the dangers of this legislation below.

Help Protect Californians' Access to Glutathione, Vitamin B12, and Other Sterile Compounds

09/21/2024

Update: I am no longer updating my pages as the site's algorithms are designed to suppress posts and push advertising.

06/30/2023

Worthless WHO to declare aspartame as possible carcinogen! I stopped drinking Diet Coke in 2007 due to severe migraines. No Diet Coke, no migraine! We have known the dangers of aspartame for many years and only now they will sound the alarm. Damage done!

Those of us in the No GMO, safe food movement will find this article as too little, too late especially in regards to glyphosate as well.

READ: https://fortune.com/well/2023/06/29/world-health-organization-aspartame-possible-carcinogen/

01/02/2023

At the beginning of a new year it is not unusual to look over the past year to assess the people we interacted with as well as the events we participated in. It may be a startling revelation for some, especially on social media, that some people have disappeared from your life. Now, social media algorithms may influence the disappearance but sometimes those algorithms are influenced by the beliefs or opinions of the disappeared. As we grow we may come to understand things differently, especially as more information becomes available that shines light on information that was hidden whether intentionally or not. A person dedicated to growth and truth will have an open mind that allows them to accept a different point of view while others will hold steadfast in their present belief. When this happens chasms are born and will expand the more beliefs change. Eventually, the steadfast being feels there is too much of a conflict between them and the person who changes their beliefs and either consciously or unconsciously withdraws. It can work the other way as well, that the evolving person no longer feels a resonance with the steadfast being and does the same withdrawal.

It is important to understand that this is natural and follows the law of resonance. No need to demonize anyone. One never knows when something may alter a persons consciousness and you will find yourself on the same level of resonance. It does happen. I have experienced the coming together after a period of absence and it is a joyous reunion.

Remember, people come into our lives for reasons, seasons or lifetimes. Follow your intuition, go with the flow and bless your interactions with everyone. We can learn from all our relationships if we so desire. We can send love to all, even those we do not currently resonate or interact with. Raising our vibes helps others to do the same!

Wishing you all many blessings in 2023!

06/15/2022

WITHHOLDING aka THE SILENT TREATMENT

Emotional pain is at the root of our tendency to withhold, and this causes pain to the people subjected to it.

The most common form of withholding is what we commonly call “the silent treatment,” but withholding encompasses any unwillingness to express your true feelings. It also includes an unwillingness to give support, praise, or positive attention to the people you love. We have all known someone who is impossible to please, and many of us have suddenly found ourselves at the other end of a chilly silence with no explanation. At the same time, many of us will recognize our own tendency to withhold our emotions rather than express them. Most of us have seen both sides of the withholding dilemma. Emotional pain is at the root of our tendency to withhold, and withholding causes pain to the people subjected to it. It is a dysfunctional pattern that creates a breakdown in communication and understanding.

No one deserves to be subjected to withholding. Feeling ignored, disrespected, or shut out, and to not know why, is a terrible feeling. The first thing to remember if this is happening to you is that you are not to blame. You are caught in someone else’s pain pattern. This person does not know how to express feelings in a healthy way probably because this is what they learned when she or he was a child. The second helpful thing to remember is that the withholder is acting out of pain. They are stuck in a habitual mode of response that is self-defeating and alienating to the people they love. Remembering this will help you feel compassion for the person hurting you. However, if you have suffered too long with this pattern, you may need to get some space. Take some time to look at your own patterns and understand why you have taken part in this drama. If you are dealing with people in a family situation, you can step up to the plate to help break the chain of this behavior pattern.

If, on the other hand, it is you that tends to withhold, understand that this is a learned response and it can be unlearned. Find safe places to begin to express all that you’ve been holding back. Begin to make an effort to say what you’re feeling and thinking. Give praise to someone you love. The more you do this, the healthier you and your relationships will become. What was learned over a course of a life cannot be changed overnight -- remember, one day at a time.

Source: Daily OM

05/06/2022

GRIEF IS IMPORTANT

Grieving doesn't have to be a process that keeps us rooted in our thoughts of fear and sadness.

Change is something that happens each and every moment in our lives. Since nothing is constant, it may sometimes seem as if we are losing something whenever things do change. Understanding that this is part of our daily existence and that there will not only be gains but also losses in our lives can help us more readily accept and deal with whatever happens.

Whenever we lose something or somebody we love, it is important for us to take time out for ourselves and truly feel the weight of what we are experiencing. Although it may seem that doing so will push us into a deeper state of sadness, truly giving ourselves permission to be with whatever arises actually creates space for us to begin the healing process. This is because the act of grieving is a natural process, allowing us to sort through the range of emotions that are present in our everyday existence. Even though it may sometimes seem easier to involve ourselves in activities that take our minds off of our sadness, this will only make the route to healing more difficult. Unless we listen to where we are in the moment, the emotions we experience will only grow in intensity, and our feelings will manifest themselves in more powerful and less comfortable ways. Once we consciously acknowledge that these emotions are present, however, we are more able to soothe the sorrow of the moment. In so doing, we become more open to our natural ability to heal ourselves.

Grieving doesn't have to be a process that keeps us rooted in our thoughts of fear and sadness. For the moment we might feel despondent, but by expressing and coping with our true feelings, we face the sadness head-on. When we allow ourselves to accept and deal with our loss fully, we will then be able to continue our life's journey with a much more positive and accepting outlook. This will make it easier for us to see that our grief is ephemeral and, just like our moments of happiness, it will also come to pass.

This article is printed from DailyOM - Inspirational thoughts for a happy, healthy and fulfilling day.

01/17/2022

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01/14/2022

Opinions are a snapshot of a person - they give insight, but don't define identity!

12/29/2021

To Take Your Career (or Life) to the Next Level, Write Notes
You work hard to acquire information; make sure you remember it

I see notes simply as a more deliberate, conscious, approach to processing information. I won’t be relying only on the subconscious, luck, and events outside of my control to elicit my brain. I’m still happy when those events take place of course, and I’m open to observing. I just see notes as another way of guiding the mind.
READ FULL ARTICLE HERE: https://index.medium.com/to-take-your-career-to-the-next-level-write-notes-fd6cbfda9422
HOW TO TAKE NOTES: https://herbertlui.net/8-lessons-from-800-note-cards-in-the-zettelkasten/

11/10/2021

During this time when we are bombarded with messages of sacrificing oneself for the "greater good" also known as communitarianism we must remember that self love takes priority. Never go against your inner voice, your intuition to make someone else feel better. Your intuition is communication between your physical self and your divine higher self. Hold your ground even if it means disappointing those around you and that includes family and friends. If they love you they will want you to follow your inner guidance. If they can't support your choices why sacrifice yourself for them?

11/05/2021

Choosing to expect = expectation. But its even more than that...it's a KNOWING to the point that you FEEL as if it is already happening. This is the step that was left out of the movie, the SECRET. FEELING comes from our manifestation megaphone, our Solar Plexus. It's the vibration that the Universe matches for us. I prefer the word INTENTION over Expectation as intention is an act or instance of determining mentally upon some action or result. It allows the Universe to conspire in ways beyond our imagination or expectation to serve our highest good. This explanation is just an expansion on this post not a contradiction. It's very important for us to understand this, especially now while we are focusing on creating a new earth.

10/29/2021

Taken from the book ’Nothing You Don’t Already Know.’ By https://www.instagram.com/purposologist/, this book is the ultimate pocket guide for those who want to live a life of meaning and purpose.