The Oaks Funeral Home

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Grief is like a snowflake...❄️Sometimes it comes one flake at a time.Other times,it comes like a blizzard.It will melt a...
12/16/2025

Grief is like a snowflake...❄️
Sometimes it comes
one flake at a time.
Other times,
it comes
like a blizzard.
It will melt away,
but it always comes back.
Just as each snowflake is unique, each person experiences grief
in their own unique way.

Dolores “Dolly” Jefferson, Beloved wife of the late Norman; Loving mother of Cheryl Jefferson (Richard Laurent), Brian, ...
12/15/2025

Dolores “Dolly” Jefferson, Beloved wife of the late Norman; Loving mother of Cheryl Jefferson (Richard Laurent), Brian, and the late Holly (Frank) McDermott; Cherished grandmother of Daniel, Joseph (Meghan), and Lauren (Matt) Sammarco; Dear great-grandmother of Patrick and Eleanor.

Visitation Wednesday, December 17th from 3:00-8:00 p.m. at The Oaks Funeral Home, 1201 E. Irving Park Road (at Prospect), Itasca. Laying in State on Thursday, December 18th from 11:00 a.m. until time of Funeral Service 11:30 a.m. at Zion Lutheran Church, 865 S Church Rd, Bensenville. Interment following at Zion Lutheran Cemetery. For funeral info, 630-250-8588 or oaksfh.com

Frederick W. Schutter, age 82, Beloved father of Jeffrey (Judi), and Jennifer Kissane; Loving grandfather of Abigail Sch...
12/15/2025

Frederick W. Schutter, age 82, Beloved father of Jeffrey (Judi), and Jennifer Kissane; Loving grandfather of Abigail Schutter, Kayla Schutter, Alyssa (Daniel) Post, Jessica Kissane, and Michael Kissane; Cherished great grandfather of Andrew, Abel, Aleissa, and Ariana; Dear brother of the late Rev. Thomas Schutter; Dear son of the late Thomas and Helen Schutter. A Visitation will be held at Saint Peter the Apostle Church, 551 N. Rush Street, Itasca on Wednesday, December 17th, 9:00 AM until the Mass of Christian Burial, 10:00 AM. Interment private. For funeral information: 630-250-8588 or oaksfh.com

A little music for this Monday Wish You Were Here ~ Eddie Fisher They're not making the skies as blue this yearWish you ...
12/15/2025

A little music for this Monday

Wish You Were Here ~ Eddie Fisher

They're not making the skies as blue this year
Wish you were here
As blue as they used to when you were near
Wish you were here
And the mornings don't seem as new
Brand new as they did with you
Wish you were here, wish you were here
Wish you were here
Someone's painting the leaves all wrong this year
Wish you were here
And why did the birds change their song this year?
Wish you were here
They're not shining the stars as bright
They've stolen the joy from the night
Wish you were here, wish you were here
Wish you were here
Someone's painting the leaves all wrong this year
Wish you were here
Why did the birds change their song this year?
Wish you were here
They're not shining the stars as bright
They've stolen the joy from the night
Wish you were here, wish you were here
Wish you were here

For many, healing feels like a bad word.It can sound like “get over it” or “move on.”  As if we are pretending the loss ...
12/14/2025

For many, healing feels like a bad word.
It can sound like “get over it” or “move on.” As if we are pretending the loss doesn’t matter anymore. For some, it even feels disloyal.
As if easing the pain means we are somehow letting go of the person who died.
But healing isn’t erasing.
It isn’t forgetting.
It isn’t closing the door to that love.
Healing simply means the tragic event stops running our entire life.
Love stays! but the suffering slowly loosens its grip.
It means we carry the person forward with us.
While grief honors the loss, healing honors both those who have died and us.

This Christmas I am anxious because it puts a huge spotlight on my grief
12/13/2025

This Christmas I am anxious because it puts a huge spotlight on my grief

To My Wife in Heaven😇You're always in my heart ❤️
12/12/2025

To My Wife in Heaven😇
You're always in my heart ❤️



There are moments, they come quiet unexpectedly, when the grief feels fresh again.
12/11/2025

There are moments, they come quiet unexpectedly, when the grief feels fresh again.

William “Bill” McLaughlin, age 79, passed away peacefully at home in Itasca, IL, on December 9, 2025, surrounded by the ...
12/10/2025

William “Bill” McLaughlin, age 79, passed away peacefully at home in Itasca, IL, on December 9, 2025, surrounded by the love of his family. Born on June 1, 1946, in Port Chester, NY, Bill was the son of the late Patrick and Margaret McLaughlin.

Bill married the love of his life, Janis, on May 27, 1972, after first meeting while both were working at the American Can Company in Greenwich, CT, and together they built a life defined by devotion, faith, and deep family connection. He was the proud father of Matthew (Michelle) McLaughlin of Itasca, IL and Kelly (Arnie) Alvarez of Roselle, IL, and the cherished grandfather of Hannah and Ryan Alvarez. Bill also leaves behind his loyal grand-dog and special companion, Cassie, who brought him much laughter and joy.

Bill is also survived by his brothers Denis (Mary Lee) and Eddie (Jean); his sister-in-law Jean (Bill) Cramer; his brother-in-law Kirk (Katie) Whalley; and many beloved nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his brothers Patrick, John (Emelina), his sister Nellie (Frank) Tyburski, and his beloved in-laws Bud and Lois Whalley.

A proud Vietnam veteran of the United States Air Force, Bill lived his life with quiet strength, humility, and a deep sense of service. That spirit of service extended far beyond his military years, shaping the way he cared for others, put their needs ahead of his own, and expressed kindness in countless ways. He was always a champion of the underdog, quick to notice those overlooked and just as quick to lift them up. Even in his final months, he was more concerned about the comfort and well-being of his nurses and caregivers than his own. His generosity came naturally, whether he was offering help before anyone asked or insisting on being a generous tipper as his way of honoring and appreciating others.

After moving to Illinois in 1987, he embraced his new home - trading in his loyalty to the Mets and becoming an enthusiastic Chicago Cubs fan. He found great joy in tending to his lawn and flowers, tracking the weather, enjoying a good jelly doughnut, and celebrating the beauty of each season.

Christmastime held a special place in Bill’s heart. His home glowed with elaborate Christmas villages, Santas, and decorations that delighted family, friends, and coworkers alike. At work, Bill was warmly known as “Mac,” and those who knew him there will forever remember his kindness, humor, and practical jokes. Hosting his annual work Christmas party became a beloved tradition, filled with laughter, warmth, and Bill and Jan’s unmistakable talent as exceptional hosts.

Above all, Bill’s greatest love and unwavering priority was his family. He treasured every moment spent with them - from everyday routines and cheering on his grandchildren to unforgettable trips to Disney World and Hawaii. His Catholic faith guided him, his kindness lifted others, and his love created a legacy that will carry on through all who were blessed to know him.

Visitation will take place on Sunday, December 14th, 2025, from 3:00–7:00 p.m. at The Oaks Funeral Home, 1201 E. Irving Park Road (at Prospect), Itasca. Family and friends will meet for a Funeral Mass on December 15th, 2025, at 10:00 am at St. Peter the Apostle Catholic Church, 551 N Rush St. in Itasca. Interment will be at St. Michael the Archangel Cemetery in Palatine, IL. In Lieu of flowers donations to Little Sisters of the Poor Palatine, St. Joseph’s Home, 80 West Northwest Highway, Palatine, IL 60067-3582 https://littlesistersofthepoorpalatine.org/donate or The Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW) Foundation. VFW National Headquarters, 406 W 34th St. Kansas City, MO, 64111, https://heroes.vfw.org/page/21776/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=vfwhomepage&utm_source=homepage&utm_medium=button would be appreciated. For funeral info, 630-250-8588 or oaksfh.com

One day you will feel the beauty of their memory more than the weight of their absence.
12/10/2025

One day you will feel the beauty of their memory more than the weight of their absence.

Grief isn't just about who we lost.It's also about the parts of ourselves that we lost with them.It’s about the way we k...
12/09/2025

Grief isn't just about who we lost.
It's also about the parts of ourselves that we lost with them.
It’s about the way we keep going on while all of those parts & pieces are missing.💔🧡♥️

Talk to me🥰I hear you🤗Death won't keep us apart 💔Our love is forever💝
12/08/2025

Talk to me🥰
I hear you🤗
Death won't keep us apart 💔
Our love is forever💝




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