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Reflections on Tough Choices Sudden death shook me to my core.I really didn’t know if there could be life for me after s...
03/16/2026

Reflections on Tough Choices

Sudden death shook me to my core.
I really didn’t know if there could be life for me after such a devastating loss.

For me, getting beyond the rawest parts of grief was about making choices.

I forced myself to choose happiness every day.

I forced myself to choose getting out of bed.
I forced myself to choose taking a shower.
I forced myself to choose not indulging in self-destructive behaviors.

Sometimes I chose complaining.
Sometime I chose feeling abandoned.

But then, I forced myself to choose support,
to creating a circle, to find those who got it.

Choosing happiness can feel like forgetting.
Choosing love can feel like a betrayal.

But, each day, I made the choice to push beyond those thoughts.
I alone get to decide how happy I want to be,
regardless of the storms in my life.

Some losses never get casseroles.There is no public acknowledgment.There are no cards.No baskets of flowers  No one sayi...
03/15/2026

Some losses never get casseroles.
There is no public acknowledgment.
There are no cards.
No baskets of flowers
No one saying, "I'm so sorry."
Just a private unraveling you carry into life with a tight smile.
But, the Lord sees what others overlook. Nothing is invisible to Him.

Surround yourself with people that push you to do and be better.No drama or negativity.Just higher goals and higher moti...
03/14/2026

Surround yourself with people that push you to do and be better.
No drama or negativity.
Just higher goals and higher motivation.
Good times and positive energy.
No jealousy or hate.
Simply someone who agrees with bringing out the absolute best in each other.

When I post about my loved ones, it is not to seek sympathy,it is to keep their memories alive.
03/13/2026

When I post about my loved ones,
it is not to seek sympathy,
it is to keep their memories alive.

To be rid of grief would be to extinguish the love that lives within us and that is not possible.
03/12/2026

To be rid of grief would be to extinguish the love that lives within us and that is not possible.

I would give anything to hug you just one more time.  It will be the first thing I do when I walk through Heaven's door.
03/11/2026

I would give anything to hug you just one more time. It will be the first thing I do when I walk through Heaven's door.

Nina Aholec, born on May 15, 1941, in Belarus, passed away on March 7, 2026, in Elk Grove Village, Illinois. She leaves ...
03/10/2026

Nina Aholec, born on May 15, 1941, in Belarus, passed away on March 7, 2026, in Elk Grove Village, Illinois. She leaves behind a legacy of unwavering devotion to family, faith, and community.

Nina’s remarkable life journey began as her family fled the devastation of World War II, moving from Belarus to Germany when she was a young girl, before ultimately settling in Brazil, where Nina spent her formative years. At the age of 16, the family relocated to the United States. Nina embraced her new life with determination and grace, immersing herself in English language classes and quickly adapting to the vibrant culture around her. She fondly remembered her evenings spent watching "American Bandstand," where she discovered the rhythms of American dance and music, developing a particular fondness for Tom Jones and Engelbert Humperdinck.

In 1959, Nina met her future husband, Pawlo, at church, and their love story unfolded with sweetness and devotion. Their union blossomed into a beautiful marriage, where they nurtured a family that would become the heart of Nina's life. After her marriage, Nina attended Vogue Beauty School, and became a gifted hairdresser, working part-time primarily from home while skillfully balancing her work with the joys of raising her children: Sonia, Anna, Nick and Nina. Her multilingual skills, earned from a lifetime living in diverse cultures, also allowed her the opportunity to work as an interpreter for a Portuguese gentleman, showcasing her versatility and openness to the world around her.

An array of hobbies and interests complemented Nina's perfectionism. She was an excellent seamstress, often crafting clothing for her children; an exceptional hostess and cook known for her beautiful ambiances and delicious culinary delights; and a brilliant baker, known for her famous kolackies. Food and family were definitely her love languages. She also took great pride in her gardening, nurturing flowers and plants with the same care she extended to her family.

A devout member of the Orthodox faith, Nina was a long-time parishioner of St. George Belarusian Orthodox Church in Chicago, where she dedicated countless hours baking for church events, reinforcing her deep-seated belief in community and service. Nina's generous and kind-hearted nature touched the lives of many, as she was always available to lend a hand and offer support to anyone in need. Her children were her pride and joy, and her love for them was unconditional and fierce-a legacy that will carry on through them.

Nina is survived by her loving children Sonia (Alex) Sidorowych, Anna (Joey) Rizzo, Nick (Barb), and Nina Nichols; her cherished grandchildren, to whom she was known as Baba Nina: Alexander, Analia (Betty), Liza (Ken), Christina (Joe), Michael, Tania, Tessa, Michael, and Alexander; her treasured brother, Tolha Rogalevich; and her dear nephews and niece: Michael and Gina Rogalevich and George (Connie) and Nick (Linda) Kanagin.

She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Pawlo Aholec Jr.; adored granddaughter, Vanessa Nichols; her devoted parents, Ivan and Anna V. Rogalevich; fond brothers, Wasyl and Michael Rogalevich; and dearest aunt and uncle, Alexandra (Roman) Newmerzhycky.

A visitation will be held on Thursday, March 12, 2026, from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM with a Panakhyda at 7:00 PM at The Oaks Funeral Home, 1201 E. Irving Park Road in Itasca, Illinois. A Funeral Service will take place on Friday, March 13, 2026, at 9:30 AM, also at The Oaks Funeral Home and officiated by Rev. Michael Pasieka. Interment will follow at Elmwood Cemetery in River Grove, Illinois.

Nina Aholec's contributions to her family and community will forever be cherished, and her memory will continue to inspire all who had the privilege of knowing her. She will be deeply missed but lovingly remembered.

“Anyone can slay a dragon,” he said to me, “but try waking up every morning and loving the world all over again.”That's ...
03/10/2026

“Anyone can slay a dragon,” he said to me, “but try waking up every morning and loving the world all over again.”
That's what takes a real hero.

Losing the man who protected you through life's "firsts" is sometimes hard to explain.People often react differently whe...
03/09/2026

Losing the man who protected you through life's "firsts" is sometimes hard to explain.
People often react differently when it's a father loss. Sometimes it is barely mentioned, maybe because it's assumed we were not as close, or that the grief isn't as visible.
A father's love shapes confidence, sense of safety and the way you shows up in life.
Losing that presence leaves a lasting mark.

In a time when the world feels uncertain or unjust, it's comforting to remember that God's justice is never delayed or c...
03/08/2026

In a time when the world feels uncertain or unjust, it's comforting to remember that God's justice is never delayed or compromised.
Even when the world feels dark,
we are called to be light.
Trust His plan.
Even when it's hard.
He is working all things for good.

If you want to be happy, you have to be happy on purpose.When you wake up, you can't just wait to see what kind of day y...
03/07/2026

If you want to be happy,
you have to be happy on purpose.
When you wake up, you can't just wait to see what kind of day you will have.
You have to decide what kind of day, and life, you will have.

You get through your grief by remembering them.
03/06/2026

You get through your grief by remembering them.


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