Arjan Makar Life and Relationship Coaching

02/01/2026

Massage opening, Coaching for men and women

I have a massage session open on Tuesday February 3rd at 4pm. Just send me a message and it's yours! As always, helping me fill a last minute appointment comes with a thank you of $10 off!!!

01/27/2026

Calling all open-hearted Queens 👑♥️
With Valentine’s Day approaching, I’m inviting you to reclaim it—not as a Hallmark holiday, but as a powerful moment to get radically clear about what love truly means to you.
Who do you want to be in romantic relationship?
What do you want from a partner?
What do you want love, romance, intimacy, and play to actually look and feel like in your life?
In a world full of uncertainty and upheaval, it can feel frivolous to focus on romance. I believe the opposite is true.
Getting clear about the most significant relationship in your life is activism. It creates a solid internal foundation from which you can show up, contribute, and care. It allows your relationship to become a place of nervous-system restoration—a well of renewal in chaotic times.
Romance, pleasure, and sexuality have always been antidotes to hate.
“Make Love, Not War” was never just a slogan—it was wisdom.
Because I feel so deeply about this, I offer group coaching where we gather in community to explore, clarify, and name what we desire in love and romance—together.
✨ Relationship Alchemy Women’s Coaching Circle ✨
• Meets 2x monthly
Next session is Thursday 2/5
• 6–7pm Eastern
• Online via Zoom

01/24/2026

I’ve always carried an inner knowing that intimate relationships are one of our greatest opportunities for learning and evolution. We see ourselves most clearly when we’re reflected in another, and our hearts expand when someone else’s needs matter as much as our own.
And yet, if you’re anything like me, modern romance can feel like a pendulum swing. On one side, we protect our hearts with strong boundaries and a commitment not to self-abandon. On the other, empathy, compassion, and a deep longing for connection can quietly pull us away from our center.
What if there were a way to honor both longings?
To be rooted in your own empowerment and experience a deeply bonded, nourishing relationship?
I’ve got a peaceful, easy feeling. I know you won’t let me down.
’Cause I’m already standing on the ground.
That lyric has always captured my deepest wish: to be steady in myself and to trust love. To stay grounded while opening my heart. To let romance be a place of expansion rather than contraction.
This is the work I do in Relationship Alchemy—supporting women to cultivate self-trust, clarity, and emotional steadiness while staying open to intimacy, devotion, and desire.
If you’re ready to stop swinging between over-protection and over-giving…
If you want to feel anchored in yourself and available for love…
✨ I’d love to support you.
You can join my Relationship Alchemy Group Coaching for Women to explore this work in community, or work with me 1:1 for deeper, personalized support.
Trust that nudge you’re feeling. You don’t have to figure this out alone. 💛

01/15/2026

"A vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare."
One of my coaches said this in a workshop and I cannot stop thinking about it. Whenever we have a goal, and we aren't inhabiting it with our actions, our values and our wisdom, we lose the momentum and power of manifesting.
Also, From the American Society of Training and Development:
Only 10% of people who set goals attain them.
That percentage rises to 25% with conscious commitment (ritual, writing it down, etc)
That number rises to 65% when one shares the goal with someone
That number rises to 95% when one has support and accountability.
Hiring a coach is worth the investment!
Let me know how I can support you in manifesting your vision!

01/15/2026

My low income coaching spot just opened up! A 3 month (6 session) commitment for half price. Sessions are virtual. I'd love to offer the Man Package to someone. Reach out if you are a male who wants to uplevel his relationships, his fulfillment and his impact!

01/08/2026

My Relationship Alchemy Women’s Group Coaching starts TONIGHT — and the first session is FREE!
The modern relationship zeitgeist is full of wisdom. We’re finally dismantling the cultural fairy tale about love. We’re learning that our relationship with ourselves is foundational. We’re seeing our codependency more clearly. We’re learning about attachment styles, trauma, boundaries, and why longevity is not the only measure of success. I celebrate all of that.
AND… I think it’s time to use all this insight to reshape romance going forward — to play with it instead of endlessly analyzing it. To remember the pleasure and magic of connection. To trust that we are wise enough to surrender a little more.
Esther Perel says modern relationships are “not a problem to be solved, but a paradox to be managed.” I believe one of those paradoxes is this: how do we surrender to the mystery and excitement of romance, while staying grounded, self-aware, and realistic?
That’s what we explore in Relationship Alchemy — whether you’re partnered, single, or hoping to be someday. We uncover each woman’s unique path to what feels authentically romantic and alive, while honoring boundaries, insight, and real-world expectations.
Join us tonight!
DM me for the link and become part of the community. 💛

01/06/2026

A Sincere Invitation

1. On Thursday, January 8th I will be starting an ongoing Group Coaching for Women Relationship Alchemy and Clarity! The first meeting is free! We will meet 2X a month, on Thursdays at 5:45pm Via Zoom Investment: $47/mo. Relationship Clarity for Women Through Group Coaching! There are real challenge...

01/05/2026

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01/05/2026

For generations, women were taught to accommodate and stay quiet. Men were taught to disconnect from their emotions. These patterns have harmed us all—and now we’re living with the consequences. Dating feels exhausting. Relationships feel fragile. I see men and women retreating from each other, and it breaks my heart.
There’s a lot of good relationship advice out there, but actually living it is hard. It goes against years of conditioning about love. Going slow. Prioritizing values. Choosing compatibility over chemistry. None of this comes naturally.
The good news? We’re in a powerful moment. As men and women evolve, we get to redefine what relationship can be. The old paradigms are crumbling, and many of us are doing the work to create something healthier and more honest.
But here’s what I know for sure: we can’t do this alone. If we want better intimate relationships, we have to do the work in relationship.
✨ Two ways to get support:
💛 For Women: Relationship Alchemy Group Coaching Circle
2x/month • Thursdays at 5:45pm • Online
Starting January 8th
🔥 For Men: The Man Package
6 individual coaching sessions over 3 months
Commit by January 15th for a discounted rate
If you’re ready to do relationships differently, this is your invitation.