Ruins Rebuilt

01/18/2026

Great message this morning on forgiveness from an amazing teacher/theologian. Part 2 will be tonight in Jackson from Dr. Kendall. Come out to

01/08/2026

Prayer helps establish that we are not the center of our lives, but Christ is. Prayer brings unity to marriage and declares I want my spouse to grow more like Him.

12/31/2025

It might just look like wings and fries. It is…and it isn’t. Whether it’s fowl, coffee or enjoying the snow fall down, it’s a commitment to make time for each other, regardless of what the schedule may hold. What does making a commitment for time look like in your marriage?

12/04/2025

How “inconvenience-able” are you with your spouse? Something to reflect on!

11/27/2025

Holy Spirit, change my heart to see my marriage as an act of worship and obedience. What would that look like?

11/20/2025

It’s not just ice cream. Not even just Emily’s birthday yesterday (happy 41st!). It’s a husband & wife choosing to pursue each other for a lifetime. Christ pursues his bride relentlessly, dare I say ruthlessly…so why should we pursue differently? For over two decades, she has pursued and challenged me and I have made her laugh (at my own expense a lot) and pursued her. Jesus has transformed us during that process because even when we missed the mark (really badly at times), he forever pursues and calls us back to Him.

11/20/2025

Jon Tyson said once, “We’ve hit the 2:00min warning, what will you do?”

But really, what will you do?

11/20/2025

Yes and amen!!! There’s nothing grace cannot change and transform!

11/17/2025

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11/13/2025

Keep your eyes on where you want to go together. It is an endless pursuit and worth the journey together.

11/13/2025

This is something Ian and have learned along the way. If you are looking to be completed by another person, you will only be disappointed, hurt, and possibly resentful towards each other. Let God be the only one to make you whole.

This quote articulates the single most important message for your marriage: Christ is enough. He's plenty.

It's romantic to want to "be completed" by each other in marriage, but that sentiment causes all sorts of problems. Only Christ can complete you... make you whole.

When we (knowingly or unknowingly) expect our spouse to meet our deepest needs, we set them up for failure. Yes, as spouses, there are "needs" that we can help meet for each other. But the deepest needs - meaning, security, identity, purpose - can only be met in Christ.

When we look to Christ for our needs we are always filled, always overflowing.
Remember: "The steps of man are established by the Lord, when he delights in his way; though he fall, he shall not be cast headlong, for the Lord upholds his hand." Psalm 37:23-24

Stay fierce,
Ryan & Selena

11/13/2025

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