
09/02/2024
"A few years ago, I read a piece about the wisdom of evaluating what types of pain or struggle you endure well. The author highlighted that even the best things in life—travel, falling in love, parenthood—come with challenges. He argued that maybe we should focus a little less on what we want out of life and start asking, “What am I willing to struggle for?” When it comes to long-term romantic relationships, this advice is spot on."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/202405/everyday-triggers-what-sets-us-off-and-how-to-beat-it
When we're targeted, it's hard to think straight. But we can.