Coach Kim

11/26/2025

Tip #17: “Don’t Rush It”
This stage of life, there’s no rush. I don’t necessarily “need” butterflies — You need consistency. Slow responses are a response — and no chasing what’s not choosing you.
-If it’s meant for you, it won’t need chasing.
💬 Your worth isn’t measured by response time.
💖 You’re the prize — not the pusher. Be discerning, not desperate. SparklePlaybook

11/25/2025

Tip #16: No Midnight Texts from New Matches.
If the first time he reaches out is after hours, he’s not looking for love — he’s looking for access.
Your value doesn’t drop at midnight — and neither should your standards.
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11/24/2025

Date Tip #15: Try something new! Don’t be afraid to try that new menu item or karaoke that other genre of music. Step out of your comfort zone zone just a Tiny bit and see where it leads.

11/24/2025

💖 Stop underestimating the power of your femininity. 💖

11/23/2025

Tip #14: Try Not to Say ‘Back in My Day’. You’re not ancient. You’re just… experienced.
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11/22/2025

11/21/2025

Tip #13: “I’m Not Looking for Anything Serious” = I Just Want a Good Time.
If he tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, he means it.
🚩 No fairy dust will change his mind.
💡 You’re not auditioning for love.
👑 Move on.
Pick your copy of The Sparkle Playbook available on Amazon or DM for an autographed copy! SparklePlaybook

11/21/2025

📣✨ ANNOUNCING: The Sparkle Playbook Book Club! ✨📣
Led by yours truly — Coach Kimberly D. L. Pittman, BMsc, CLC

Sis… the book is more than pages. It’s a movement. And now, it’s time to go deeper — together.

I’m officially launching The Sparkle Playbook Book Club — a space for real conversations, real healing, and real sisterhood around dating, self-worth, boundaries, and yes… grown woman glow-ups.

We’ll laugh, learn, sip, maybe even side-eye a few old stories — and we’ll do it all with love.

👑 Whether you’re single, dating again, or just curious… you’re invited.

✨ But first, preorder your autographed hardcover copy (because you know I’m signing it with sparkle and intention 💋):
👉🏽 https://form.jotform.com/253157410799060

Let’s read. Let’s rise. Let’s reclaim the love story — together. 💕

11/19/2025

Tip #12: “First Date Rule: No Heavy Topics”
Keep it fun. Save discussions about alimony and custody battles for… well, let’s talk about that later.
🍷 Flirt. Laugh. Connect.
⚖️ Therapy topics stay off the menu.
💖 Save the deep dive for someone who’s already earned your trust.
Order your copy of The Sparkle Playbook available now on Amazon or DM me to purchase an autographed copy.

11/19/2025

Tip #11: Pay attention to the Ex-Talk. If he bashes his ex constantly, you could be the next ‘crazy ex’ in his stories.
- Excessive ex talk = emotional mess talk
- Grown men reflect. Bitter men deflect.
- Your peace is sacred — don’t let it get trauma-bonded.

The Sparkle Playbook is now available!