12/17/2025
For those dealing with the loss of a loved one, the celebration of the holiday season can be very emotional and highly difficult. What are the best ways to cope with grief during the holidays? Here are a few suggestions from Amy Goyer for AARP:
1. Only do what feels right. It's up to you to decide which activities, traditions, or events you can handle. Don't feel obligated to participate in anything that doesn't feel comfortable.
2. Accept your feelings, whatever they might be. Everyone takes his or her own path in grief and mourning. However you feel, accept it. And accept the inevitable ups and downs.
3. Call on your family and friends. Talk with loved ones about your emotions. Be honest about how you'd like to do things this year.
4. Focus on the kids. Think of your children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, or neighborhood children and how your participation in holiday activities affects them. Perhaps you can allow yourself to absorb their joy by joining them in activities that are important to them and excuse yourself when you reach your limit.
5. Scale back. If the thought of many holiday activities feels painful, overwhelming, or inappropriate this year, cutting back may help.
6. Give. During times of grief, sometimes the biggest comfort is to give to others.
7. Acknowledge those who have passed on. For example, donate items to a charitable organization in their name. Light a candle for them, or place the deceased’s photo on the Christmas tree or among holiday decorations.
As funeral professionals, we are aware of the additional stress the holiday season can place upon the lives of grieving individuals. We encourage people to take good care of themselves and to obtain the support they need.
Whatever your personal situation may be this year, we at Haut Funeral Home wish you a warm and comforting holiday season.
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