10/16/2025
✨ Before a child can talk, listen, eat, or learn, their brain and body must first feel safe and calm.
🧠 The brain works in layers:
1️⃣ Survival – “Am I safe?”
2️⃣ Emotional – “Am I loved and understood?”
3️⃣ Thinking/Communicating – “Now I can talk, listen, and learn.”
When the lower layers aren’t secure, communication can’t fully happen. Regulation isn’t extra; it’s the foundation.
🌿 Connection comes before communication.
💬 Question: What helps your child feel safe and calm before they can talk or learn? Share your go-to strategies below 👇