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01/24/2026

For those who have experienced a loss in the last year, remember to honor that loss by creating boundaries for yourself. For example, you don't have to make resolutions or a "fresh start" just because others may be doing so at this time of year. Create your own schedule as much as you are able. If you aren't ready, give yourself some time to reset and lean into healing.

01/21/2026

Today is National Hugging Day, so hug yourself and hug a friend!

01/20/2026

Does posture affect mood? Studies have shown that it can enhance confidence as well as mood. Try spreading your hands wide, putting your hands up in "victory" mode or hands on hips with legs apart. Hold that position and see how you feel.

01/18/2026

Tomorrow is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, which has been a federal holiday for 40 years. His is a legacy that promotes peace, equality and hope.

01/17/2026

During the winter months when it is less appealing to go out, home organizing tasks can fill some of your time. One tip home organizers use is to set a timer when working on daunting organizational tasks. Start with 5 minutes to reorganize your sock drawer or tidy the kitchen counter. Work up to more time for the whole dresser or closet. Minimize the overwhelm of going through items and paperwork with this simple technique. Short bursts of organizing can make it more manageable.

01/16/2026

On hope:
"Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all the darkness."
- Desmond Tutu

01/15/2026

Our blog has a few articles of interest to local families. We hope you will take a look at the latest post about preplanning and give us a ring when you are ready to discuss your needs.

Learn how the simple act of preplanning brings peace to Bixby, Haskell, Jenks families. Begin an important conversation with Marker Funeral Homes.

01/13/2026

While it may be difficult to do the simplest things sometimes, exercise -- anything from stretching to walking to more demanding activities -- can help you cope with grief. Learn more about 6 ways exercise can help you when grieving. And, ask a friend to join you on a short walk to get started.
https://www.silversneakers.com/blog/ways-exercise-can-help-when-grieving/

01/10/2026

“One kind word can warm three winter months.”
– Japanese proverb

01/07/2026

Remember that grief can take many forms and not occur only at the time of a loss. Anticipatory grief can happen when a loved one receives a medical diagnosis, such as cancer or Alzheimer's disease. Delayed grief can take place when feelings are set aside for a period of time. Grief is complex, and each person experiences it differently. Keep in mind it can have physical symptoms, from fatigue and restlessness to heart and stomach issues. This is why we encourage everyone to take care of themselves at all times, and especially when grieving.

01/05/2026

Want to add more movement to your life? Move-It Monday is the perfect time to make it happen! Start with a short walk around the house and work up to walking around the block. Consider your goals and capabilities as you begin the year, and consult your doctor with concerns.

01/03/2026

Grief can be surprising. It can show up at any time. With a song, a flower, even a turn of phrase. Give yourself the grace to move through it. Acknowledge how grief shows up for you and do your best to remember, with hope in your heart.