
02/14/2025
Nya Akoma! Black Love Day was yesterday, but if you’ve been here a while, you know I always post on the 14th. Why? Because Black Love Day isn’t just a moment, it’s an intentional, week-long practice of immersing ourselves in Black love, community, and care.
We’ve been away, but for good reasons! I’ve been:
- Accomplishing personal growth goals
- Taking intentional time off social media
- Resting with intention, because rest is resistance
- Preparing for some powerful collaborations ahead
- Doing the work, building the next round of Beauty Boone offerings
And what better way to return than with Black Love?
Founded by Sister Ayo Handy-Kendi in 1993, Black Love Day (Feb. 13) is a radical act of healing, atonement, and celebrating love on our own terms. Unlike Valentine’s Day, rooted in consumerism and romance, Black Love Day is about self-love, family love, community love, and racial solidarity.
Right now, everyone is talking about organizing, about radical love, about how to survive these uncertain times. The threats to our rights, our safety, and our futures are real. But Black Love Day reminds us that our people have always known how to build, how to care for each other, how to resist together. It’s a chance to re-establish the ways our parents and elders organized with love as the foundation.
Honoring Black Love isn’t just about relationships, it’s about liberation. In a world that often tries to define us, celebrating love in our own way is a revolutionary act. It’s a moment to revisit the Nguzo Saba (The Seven Principles of Kwanzaa) because love is more than a feeling, it’s a daily practice of unity, self-determination, collective work, and purpose.
So today, I invite you to live love, give love, and be love.
Do you celebrate Black Love Day?