07/27/2024
A quick temper comes from fear. Many people think a quick temper comes from confidence, but it’s actually insecurity and feelings of being out of control.
Of course, it never ok to intimate, scream at, or unleash your temper on another because you feel afraid. But it does help understand the behavior.
The more confident and secure a person is, the more they’re in their rational mind and able to seek solutions. The more afraid and in threat mode, the more in the lizard (or survival brain.)
Confidence is quiet, cooperative, and able to stay grounded
