10/16/2024
Content caution: pregnancy and infant loss mentioned
So many times, the Welcome Baby KC team is the first to know new pregnancy news. Sometimes it comes with nervous excitement, sometimes immense joy, sometimes fear or regret. We quietly offer words of encouragement and support from the first moments of pregnancy to the very last, no matter what path those pregnancies or families take.
Among our team, as parents and mothers, we've experienced loss and heartache. Some more than others. We know how fragile a pregnancy can be.
As professionals, we've answered panicked 2am phone calls about early pregnancy bleeding. We've stared at our phones, waiting for first ultrasound updates and instead hearing, they don't see anything and want to know if my dates are right. I don't know what to do.
We've excitedly waited for updates on an anatomy scan and s*x announcement, only to get a short text... Lauren, it doesn't look good.
We've googled so our clients didn't have to. We've cried to each other to be quiet and strong for the families we serve. We've researched providers, amniocentesis, induction options, everything we could possibly think of to help a family enjoy the little time they have left with the little one already love so much.
We've held our breath, waiting on the precious first moments of life. We've seen the thinness of the veil, the place of in between for people giving birth and their babies. We've wiped the tears, hung our heads, and grieved deeply. Talked with our clients about going home without a baby at home. Hoped, wished, prayed, things could be different.
1 in 4 for Pregnancy and Infant loss sounds so cold and common. You are not one in four to us. You and your family and your baby, the one with you and the ones you wished had stayed, are not common. We see your hopes, wishes, and dreams. They are not forgotten. You and your babies are not forgotten.