Kapolei Counseling Center, LLC

07/21/2025

Common signs of depression include persistent sadness, loss of interest in activities, and changes in appetite. If these resonate with you, it’s okay to seek help.  

Contact our intake line at 809-272-5355 to make an appointment today.

07/19/2025

We help address these issues in a private space.

What's behind the KISS-CAM GONE WRONG?

We don’t often post on current events, but we’ve been asked this a lot today: why did that kiss cam moment at the Coldplay concert go so wildly viral?

Let’s start by admitting—it’s profoundly sad (real people were affected). But that sadness is disguised in viral packaging. Psychologically, what makes it so captivating is the clash: private pain revealed through a public ritual, triggering judgment, laughter, empathy, and shame—sometimes all at once. And the internet, with its insatiable appetite for real-time drama, pounces on that tension with unrelenting speed.

It’s a moment meant for romance (a kiss cam) that accidentally reveals betrayal. We’re wired to be drawn to raw emotion—especially when it spills out unexpectedly.

But beneath the viral buzz is a quiet truth: trust is fragile. And moments like this can remind us to tend to our own relationships with honesty, care, and commitment.

Viral moments fade. Strong marriages are built in the quiet choices no camera ever sees.

07/17/2025

Depression is more than just feeling sad. It can affect energy, sleep, and daily activities. If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that help is available. 

Contact our intake line at 808-272-5355 to make an appointment today.

07/15/2025

Love these…

Boundaries are not walls—they're bridges to healthy, respectful relationships. 💙
They help us protect our emotional, physical, and digital well-being—especially for those healing from trauma.

Whether you're asking for space, saying no to physical touch, or choosing when to respond to messages, your boundaries are valid. They don’t need to be justified. They don’t require permission. They are an act of self-respect.

If you're unsure how to set boundaries or what yours might be, you're not alone. Learning to protect your peace is a process—and you deserve support every step of the way.

📲 Learn more about boundaries, how to set them, and how to communicate them at loveisrespect.org/resources/what-are-my-boundaries.

07/02/2025

PTSD touches more lives than we often realize. Millions are affected, yet only a fraction ever receive the support they deserve. Let’s keep advocating for visibility, compassion, and access to trauma-informed care.

 

06/30/2025

PTSD isn’t just emotional—it’s neurological. Our brain and body are working overtime. Trauma rewires how we process the world, often triggering fight, flight or freeze even when there’s no immediate threat. Understanding these brain-based changes is the first step toward compassion, healing and reclaiming safety.

06/27/2025

Today, on PTSD Awareness Day, we recognize the strength of survivors and the importance of compassionate support. Let’s continue the conversation, foster healing, and advocate for those affected.

06/26/2025

✨ Book Recommendation of the Month ✨
📚 Do the New You by Steven Furtick

This powerful new read is a game-changer for anyone feeling stuck, unmotivated, or unsure of their purpose. Pastor Steven Furtick challenges us to stop waiting for the “perfect version” of ourselves and instead embrace who we are right now—flaws and all—as the starting point for real transformation.

It’s not about striving to become someone else, it’s about stepping into the bold, courageous, faith-filled version of YOU that God is already calling forward.

💡 Highlights:
✅ Practical faith-based guidance
✅ Empowering mindset shifts
✅ A refreshing reminder that change starts with belief—not perfection

Whether you’re navigating a new season or just looking to grow in your faith and confidence, this book offers the encouragement and clarity you need.

🌀 “You don’t have to strive to become a better version of you—just show up and let God do the new work in you.”

📖 Add this one to your reading list—you won’t regret it!

06/25/2025

PTSD is not just for veterans, and it’s not a sign of weakness! Let’s break down the common misconceptions.

06/25/2025

The City and County of Honolulu is opening its Wait List for the Section 8 Housing Choice Voucher Program. The U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) Section 8 Housing Choice Voucher Program provides rental assistance to eligible households. Only online pre-applications will be accepted from Monday, July 14, 2025, 7:45 a.m., through Friday, July 18, 2025, at 4:30 p.m. Submitted pre-applications will be randomized, and through a lottery, 3,000 selected applications will be placed on the waiting list. There is no first-come, first-served advantage, and only one application will be allowed per household. There is no guarantee for eligibility or housing assistance after applying.
Pre-applications will be accepted online from Monday, July 14, 2025, 7:45 a.m., to Friday, July 18, 2025, 4:30 p.m., at
https://tinyurl.com/oahuhcv

THERE IS NO COST TO APPLY.

For more information about this waitlist, frequently asked questions, and other information visit: https://www.honolulu.gov/dcs/cad/