Sanctuary Counseling

Sanctuary Counseling Elizabeth Haarberg, MSEd CMHC, LIMHP, NCC, PLADC. In person and telehealth counseling services available for those residing in Nebraska.

10/31/2025

Great information on cold plunging and benefits of sauna use for women.
Dr. Stacy Sims is a fantastic resource for female athletes and women that want to take care of their themselves at any age.

For anyone dealing with fear today. Fear is a liar.
10/20/2025

For anyone dealing with fear today. Fear is a liar.

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If you're in the agriculture arena and are struggling, there are resources available to get you through. The Rural Respo...
10/09/2025

If you're in the agriculture arena and are struggling, there are resources available to get you through. The Rural Response Hotline is one of those support systems.
My office also partners with the hotline for three free sessions of therapy for anyone in rural Nebraska, which means all areas of Nebraska minus metro Omaha and Lincoln. Reach out at sanctuarycounselingservice.com or 308.244.4131. Telehealth or in-person appointments available.

https://farmhotline.com/

The Rural Response Hotline has been strengthening rural communities since 1984 by providing knowledge and resources in times of crisis.

Attending a fantastic training today at Nebraska Association Marriage and Family Therapist fall conference! Looking forw...
10/03/2025

Attending a fantastic training today at Nebraska Association Marriage and Family Therapist fall conference! Looking forward to applying what I’m learning. 🙌🏼

09/26/2025

Athletes need to be encouraged. Many times, the difference between winning and losing is if someone thinks they can or they can’t.

09/20/2025

Don’t give up. Something good is around the corner.

And a person can carry this into adulthood, which can impact relationships, work, and other areas of a persons life.
09/06/2025

And a person can carry this into adulthood, which can impact relationships, work, and other areas of a persons life.

The Impact of High-Stress Environments on Children's Brain Development

A study was conducted on a group of children aged 8-12 who grew up in high-conflict households. These households were characterized by constant verbal disputes, emotional neglect, and, in some cases, physical aggression between parents. The goal of the study was to understand how prolonged exposure to such environments affects brain development, particularly in regions associated with stress regulation, emotional processing, and cognitive function.

The study included 40 children, 20 of whom were raised in high-conflict homes, and 20 who grew up in stable, low-conflict environments. All children were matched by age, socioeconomic status, and basic educational background. The children from the high-conflict homes were identified through reports from social workers, teachers, and parental interviews that documented ongoing family stress.

Researchers used functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging (fMRI) to study the brain activity of both groups. They also conducted behavioral assessments to evaluate emotional regulation, impulse control, and social interactions. The participants were asked to complete tasks that involved decision-making, emotional responses to stimuli (e.g., angry faces), and memory retention.

Brain Structural Changes:
Children from high-conflict homes showed significant changes in the prefrontal cortex, which is responsible for impulse control, decision-making, and planning. The prefrontal cortex in these children was found to be less active, which indicates difficulties in regulating emotions and behavior. This mirrors the changes found in individuals who have been diagnosed with PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder).

Hyperactivity of the Amygdala:
The amygdala, the brain's emotional processing center, was found to be hyperactive in children from high-conflict homes. This suggests that these children are more prone to heightened emotional responses, such as anxiety or fear. The overstimulation of the amygdala could lead to emotional dysregulation, making it difficult for the children to manage stressful situations in a healthy way. This is a pattern often seen in trauma survivors, including war veterans.

Impaired Hippocampal Functioning:
Another significant finding was the reduced size and functioning of the hippocampus in children from high-conflict households. The hippocampus is responsible for memory formation and learning. Reduced hippocampal volume has been linked to trauma and chronic stress. These children had difficulty remembering information accurately and had problems with learning, which could affect their academic performance and day-to-day functioning.

Behavioral Impact:
Children from high-conflict homes exhibited behavioral symptoms similar to those seen in trauma survivors. They showed signs of hypervigilance, a state of being constantly on alert for potential threats, and often struggled with impulse control and social interactions. These children were more likely to have outbursts, difficulty making friends, and exhibited withdrawal in social settings. Their emotional responses were often out of proportion to the situations they were in, similar to the emotional dysregulation seen in people with PTSD.

Cognitive and Emotional Challenges:
In addition to brain changes, the children from high-conflict homes scored lower on tests of emotional intelligence. They had trouble identifying and responding to their own emotions and were more likely to misinterpret social cues. This cognitive and emotional disconnect could lead to difficulties in forming healthy relationships, both socially and later in life.

Conclusion:
The study provides compelling evidence that children from high-conflict homes undergo brain changes that are similar to those experienced by trauma survivors, such as war veterans. The chronic stress of living in a conflict-ridden environment leads to significant alterations in brain areas responsible for emotional regulation, memory, and decision-making. These changes can have long-term effects on the child’s emotional, cognitive, and social development.

Implications for Intervention:
This case study highlights the importance of early intervention for children who grow up in high-conflict environments. Therapeutic approaches, such as trauma-focused therapy, and creating a more stable, nurturing environment, can help mitigate the adverse effects of chronic stress. Support from caregivers, educators, and mental health professionals is essential to help these children rebuild emotional regulation skills, reduce anxiety, and foster healthier brain development

For any parent that needs a reminder. You’re doing great!
08/20/2025

For any parent that needs a reminder. You’re doing great!

507.9K likes, 13.4K comments. “Gone head and send this to your bestie who feels like she’s not doing her best as a mom 🫶🏽”

08/18/2025

If you’re supporting a friend or family member who is depressed and maybe even having dark thoughts, take heart, they’re still breathing.
There’s always time to heal as long as a person is willing to breathe.

07/31/2025

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