12/15/2025
Coping with Grief and Loss During the Holidays
When you're missing someone you love, the holidays can make grief feel overwhelming. 💛 You're flooded with memories, expectations, family dynamics, comparisons on social media, and all of those perfect-family Christmas movies--it's exhausting.
Often times, friends or family just don't understand their loved one's grief and want them to "move on" or "move forward."
If you're grieving, or supporting someone who is grieving, here are some simple things that can help.
🌟 Be patient. Either with yourself or with someone grieving, give your full presence
🌟 Be open. Free yourself from any pressure - let the day be the day.
🌟 Be gentle. Trust that whatever you choose is enough for now
🌟 Journal your feelings or write a letter to your loved one
🌟 Reach out for support from friends, family, or a therapist
I don't know who needs to hear this today, but you're not a burden. You're a gift. Sharing your feelings is a beautiful thing with a safe person.
Grief is personal. One person experiences it totally different from another. And that's okay. Grief is a weird and complicated feeling. You deserve support this holiday season. 💌