Ask and Tell

07/15/2019

Its been a min since i posted so i hope you will forgive me....

05/03/2019

I want all to know my mother past about one and half years ago. She had no will. My stepfather went to live with his daughter Penny Ware and her hubby Larry Ware. I was given til july of this year to get things out of the house on 307 west gold street. My moms, grandmothers, grandfathers and my sisters belongings are what is in the house. Now Im told I cant go on that property and those things i will not get because of the Wares who have taken advantage of my step fathers mental status. They are greedy and have used my fathers money to benefit themselves. My father has taxes in which they have not paid but paid over 5300.00 on their own property in feb this year. My fathers income is close to 3000 a month and he should have no bills late. He would never agree that the things from my family be kept from me. These people dont deserve any kindness. I have been threatened by Larry Ware and because he is a retired ex policeofficer. He has an arrogance about him as if he is untouchable. These ppl are just greedy. My mother never wanted my father to live with them because of their history of their own finaces she knew they would exploit my father which is what they are doing now. I pray God has mercy on them for what they are doing. They also have cut my father off from any out side contact with out their influence. Smh

04/21/2019

Whats up? Im still fussing about these headlights that blind the heck out of me. Why are they so bright. You cant tell me this has not contributed to an accident some where. Am I the only one who feels this way. These LED headlights are so bright that when a car gets behind me that has these in I can not tell most of the time whether they have brights on or not. I wish they would ban them once and for all. Anybody feel the same way? Say sum..

04/14/2019

I have to say that the ER in gastonia hospital is a joke. No one moves with a sense of urgency. They dont give a damn to move any frigin faster than a snails pace

02/05/2019

I just visited the CLEVELAND COUNT COURT house. To my surprise you can no longer enter the court house with any electronic devices( cell phones,iPad, tablets etc) I was told that a superior Court judge ordered the ban so if it's an order from a judge then surely there is a place that the general public can read the total order. All I saw was something you can print up with a copier in a few minutes. These sheets posted on the front door of the court house are in my opinion tacky and very unprofessional. An order should have been posted in it's intireity so if anyone had a question it could be answered easily by reading the actual order. But it only pertains to visitors.
Prosecutors, lawyers, police officers etc are allowed to have there phones. They say they use them while they are in the court house I have seen them on their phones before court started taking selfies. I accept the ban but not the fact it's only visitors. They don't really have to have them to do their jobs. How did we ever function before cell phones. You can't even get in the building if you have your cell phone. My thing is if the judge ordered it then it should be everyone not just some. And unless it's in the order they all are breaking a judge's order and should be prosecuted. I ask a couple questions to the officer at the door and he stated I was making it hard. Why for asking questions about the ban? What in the world did we do before when we had no cell phone. You mean to tell me they can't do their jobs without a cell phone. What do you think?

02/05/2019

Have you ever just wanted to punch a co-worker in the throat...smh .let me here your thoughts

12/30/2018

I lost my mother a year ago today. I miss her and I hope to see her again. Holidays are not the same without her. Her grand daughters are doing well and she would be proud so proud of how they have grown into the most amazing women and mother's. They are strong women which should be no surprise to anyone because they have been raised that way. I made some mistake along the way but she sure did let me know I messed up. My mother was a very outspoken lady. She could be sweet as candy but cross her and you would find out real quick just how savage she could be. She said whatever she felt and never sugar coated nothing. She had at times the mouth of a sailor but believe it or not I would give anything just to hear that voice. I have had words with her many times over the years mainly cause we were so much alike. She raised me not to ever be weak or show weakness and to never back down from a fight and to always stand up for myself and what I believe in. My mother was one of a kind and I miss everything she was even the inappropriate comments she would sometimes blurt out to get a reaction. Lol. No filter did she have. There is pain when we lose family and friends but you will never feel the pain that is deep down in your soul that never leaves and is always there no matter what til you lose your mother. I had no clue as to how this pain would impact my life. With that being said here's to you Mom....

I will never forget you. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I love you and hope I have made you proud. I can only hope that I may be a strong and brave when my time is near. You we're stubborn but courageous. Mean as a hornet but had a heart of gold. You could hold a grudge but be so forgiving. Because of you I can handle anything that comes my way. What you didn't teach me mother was to live without you. I will struggle with that one til I see you again. I LOVE YOU MOM.

12/13/2018

11/25/2018

Ugh... hate traffic this time of year. To many idiots on the road. What do you think?

07/02/2018

MY Birthday is tomorrow....anybody got an idea of how to celebrate?

06/24/2018

Hounds Drive In...for a place to say no outside food or drink allowed...I seen more coolers and outside food than I thought. The concession can not keep up with supply and demand. Even though the effort to look that way is a not case. If you can't keep up with supply and demand then you really should not tell ppl no outside food or drink. Standing in a continuous line for 45 to an hour is really a joke. I would just rather go to walk in theater...cost about the same with less bull. What do you think? What has been your experience?

06/14/2018

I'm sick of the train blocking the tracks in Grover... are you?

06/09/2018

Checkpoint on Edgewood road right past cemetery.

06/02/2018

So looking forward to this weekend. Hope it's stays pretty enough to take a ride. Got something on ya mind.