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04/15/2026

Benjamin Franklin once wrote a letter that included what many believe to be his last great quote, “Our new Constitution is now established, everything seems to promise it will be durable; but, in this world, nothing is certain except death and taxes.”

Although the concept of pairing death and taxes certainly existed prior to his writing, the publication of Franklin’s papers in 1817 catapulted the statement to the forefront of American pop culture.

Once we reach adulthood, taxes are a constant in our lives. Death, on the other hand, seems to touch our lives less frequently, but more dramatically.

Statistically, the average adult will be responsible for making final arrangements for a loved one approximately 1.6 times during their lifetime. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, the most common age range for losing a parent is between the ages of 50-54.

Death is an inevitability that will touch us all. As such, wise individuals prepare for this event by having open conversations with family members and taking the time to plan ahead with a funeral home. Pre-planning allows you to place your wishes in writing and personalize your service.

We’re here to help you plan ahead for yourself or for a loved one. To begin this important process, contact us today at (631) 269-4555.

Benjamin Franklin Source: National Constitution Center
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04/14/2026

How many books can you expect to read before you die?

The article linked below gives you the breakdown, whether you’re an average, a voracious, or a super reader.

And remember, life’s too short to suffer through a book you don’t love! Pinpoint your maximum capacity and edit down your reading list to include only the books you're genuinely excited about.

https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/93594/heres-how-many-books-you-can-expect-read-you-die
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04/10/2026

Friday thoughts...

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04/08/2026

Did you know? The modern term for a hearse is a "funeral coach." A coach is custom built by cutting the frame of a car and lengthening it, similar to a limousine. The term “coach” reflects its historical origin from horse-drawn funeral carriages.

Funeral coaches symbolize respect and dignity for the deceased, transition from life to final rest, and public acknowledgement of those in mourning.

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04/06/2026

National Self-Care Day is celebrated annually on April 5th. Taking good care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is of the utmost importance, especially during the grieving process.

Here are five tips to get you started:

1. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to grieve.

2. Be positive and look towards the future with hope.

3. Relieve your sadness. Cry when needed.

4. Take care of your physical body. Grief is physical as well as emotional.

5. Record your thoughts as you recover and practice some form of journaling.

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04/05/2026

“Easter is meant to be a symbol of hope, renewal, and new life.”
-- Janine di Giovanni
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04/03/2026

"Good Friday, the day when Christians remember the crucifixion of Jesus. The crucifixion and resurrection are the central events in the Christian faith. That is why Good Friday and Easter Sunday are such important days in the Christian year. The cross is the central theme of worship."
-- Gordon Geddes
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04/02/2026

Stella Kiriakos, 98, of Kings Park, New York (formerly of Port Jefferson and Valley Stream) peacefully on April 1, 2026. Stella was born on May 24, 1927, in New Bedford, Massachusetts to the late Theodore and Catherine Tavoularis. She was a devoted and beloved wife of the late Andrew for over 60 yea...

04/01/2026

April is Worldwide Bereaved Spouses Awareness Month. Losing a spouse or partner is very traumatic, and the adjustment often seems overwhelming, confusing, and painful. Each person is unique and moves through the grieving process at their own pace.

Feelings of shock, numbness, and guilt are common after losing a spouse. Frequent crying spells, lack of appetite, and difficulty sleeping may occur. If you are grieving the loss of a spouse or partner, please remember you are not alone, and help is always available. Please reach out to family, friends, and, if needed, trained professionals.

Visit our website for more information on grief and healing.

https://www.butler-hughesfuneralhome.com/grief-support/grief-resources

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03/30/2026

William J. Gunther, 64, of Kings Park, NY on March 30, 2026 after a brief illness. Bill was born on April 18, 1961 to his loving parents William and Constance Gunther. Beloved father of William (Margaret), Stephen (Laura), Daniel and Brian. Dear brother of Karen Gunther. Cherished grandfather to W...

03/30/2026

03/29/2026

"Let us all come together cheerfully; let us all receive Him gladly, and hold our feast with all honesty. Instead of our garments, let us strew our hearts before Him, in psalms and hymns, let us raise to Him our shouts of thanksgiving; and, without ceasing, let us exclaim, ‘Blessed is he that that cometh in the name of the Lord.’"
-- Saint Methodius of Olympus
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