
07/22/2025
✨Tip Tuesday: Pause with Purpose
In speech and language development, sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is... nothing at all.
One of the most effective strategies you can use at home? The Pause.
🧠 Why Pausing Helps:
Time to Process: Young children often need more time to understand what they hear and figure out how to respond.
Encourages Communication: When we leave space, kids are more likely to fill it—with a look, a sound, a word, or even a gesture.
Less Pressure: Silence can feel safe. It gives kids the freedom to respond at their own pace.
Builds Turn-Taking: Pausing teaches the rhythm of conversation—listen, wait, respond.
⏱️ When to Use the Pause:
After a Question: Ask, then wait 5–10 seconds before repeating, rephrasing and/or providing the response.
Verbal Routines: use simple and predictable words or phrases to assist with learning language through repetition and context. For example, “Ready, set,” (give them time to respond) “Go!”
During Play: Hold up a toy or pause in the middle of an action—see if your child reacts or initiates.
While Reading: Pause before turning the page or at the end of a sentence to invite anticipation or comments.
After a Response: Even if it’s unclear, pause. They might try again, clarify, or expand.
💡 Try This:
Count silently in your head: “1 Mississippi… 2 Mississippi…”
It may feel long at first, but those few extra seconds can open the door to big communication moments.
This week, try pausing with purpose—and see what your child has to say.
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