The Counseling and Wellness House LLC

The Counseling and Wellness House LLC Therapists:
Tara Eytcheson, LCSW

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07/04/2025

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Time to level up! Self growth is worth the work.
06/09/2025

Time to level up! Self growth is worth the work.

05/28/2025
I’m excited to participate in this year‘s conference! I’ll be speaking at one of the breakout sessions. Hope to see you ...
04/22/2025

I’m excited to participate in this year‘s conference! I’ll be speaking at one of the breakout sessions. Hope to see you there! 💙

01/14/2025

What makes Lewis's treatment of Pain in this book remarkable is his refusal to offer simplistic platitudes. He confronts the problem of pain with intellectual rigor, philosophical depth, and emotional honesty. He doesn't claim to resolve all questions but provides a framework for thinking about suffering that offers hope without denying its profound difficulty.

The book is particularly powerful because Lewis speaks from personal experience. He wasn't writing as someone immune to suffering, but as someone who had wrestled deeply with pain, loss, and doubt. This gives his philosophical and theological reflections a raw authenticity that resonates with readers.

Here are the key insights:

1. The Nature of Free Will
Lewis argues that genuine love requires free will. If humans were programmed to always do good or were prevented from making harmful choices, we would essentially be robots, not beings capable of true love or moral choice. Pain, in this context, is a consequence of free will - the ability to make choices that can harm ourselves or others. This freedom means suffering is not a design flaw, but a necessary condition for meaningful existence.

2. Pain as a Developmental Tool
Contrary to viewing suffering as purely destructive, Lewis sees pain as a critical mechanism for spiritual and personal growth. Just as physical pain alerts us to bodily harm, spiritual and emotional pain can alert us to deeper psychological or moral issues. Pain disrupts our comfortable illusions, forces us to confront our limitations, and potentially redirects us toward personal transformation.

3. Suffering as Divine Pedagogy
Lewis suggests that God uses suffering as a form of education. Comfort and constant pleasure can make humans complacent and self-centered. Pain, by contrast, can break down our ego, strip away our self-sufficiency, and create openness to deeper spiritual realities. It's not that God delights in our suffering, but that suffering can be a profound teacher.

4. The Theological Perspective of Redemptive Suffering
Drawing on Christian theology, Lewis explores the idea that suffering is not meaningless but can be redemptive. Just as Christ's suffering was understood as transformative and ultimately salvific, human suffering can have profound meaning beyond its immediate experience. This doesn't minimize pain but offers a framework for understanding it.

5. The Limits of Human Understanding
Lewis is careful to acknowledge that while these philosophical perspectives offer some insight, they don't provide complete answers. The problem of pain remains, at some level, a mystery. He argues for intellectual humility - recognizing that our human perspective is limited and that complete understanding may be beyond our current capacities.

Ultimately, "The Problem of Pain" doesn't eliminate suffering but offers a perspective that can transform how we interpret and respond to it. It suggests that pain, while real and often terrible, need not be the final word - that meaning, growth, and even hope can emerge from our most challenging experiences.

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Hello, I’m Tara! Im a licensed psychotherapist and owner of The Counseling and Wellness House since 2011. I love helping...
12/26/2024

Hello, I’m Tara! Im a licensed psychotherapist and owner of The Counseling and Wellness House since 2011. I love helping clients navigate during difficult times using their own strengths and skills, while building resiliency and finding purpose in their life.

You probably have faced or are facing challenges that could benefit from an outside perspective. You are human and we all experience hard seasons which can be an opportunity to gain an inner strength we can’t develop otherwise.

Life challenges can serve as profound teachers, guiding us toward self discovery and a better you. We can either resist what lessons they offer or we can dive in and find the plan that unfolds. Often gaining the purpose in your pain.

I work at being flexible with your lifestyle and schedule by offering telehealth sessions and in person sessions with my office located in Kokomo.
Feel free to reach out if you are ready to take the first step in your journey. You can either call or text at 765-236-6335.

**Update: I am no longer accepting new clients. I will update post with changes, so check back soon.
Thank you!

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11/01/2024

Your story is meant to be told. 💗

09/11/2024

Hello! I’m excited to share that I am currently scheduling counseling appointments for new clients.
I’ll be available for in person or for telehealth sessions starting in October.

The Counseling and Wellness House will have an office 2 days a week, located at 7535 west 00 NS (SW corner of old sycamore and 750 west).

Please check out the website for more information at: www.counselingandwellnesshouse.com

To schedule an appointment or if you have any questions, call or text me at 765-236-6335 (Google voice). Unfortunately no late evening appointments available. However, some Saturdays for telehealth will be available.

I’m looking forward to continuing my work with clients and their families! 💗 Tara

08/24/2024

Thank you to everyone who attended our ribbon-cutting ceremony yesterday! We were blessed to have so many show up on such a beautiful day.
God is good!

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