01/14/2025
Miss me but live...
( By Fernando D'Sandi )
Make me cry! Cry me with all the strength your wounded soul will allow. Scream my name if you need it, let the emptiness pe*****te you, let the pain burn and consume every corner of your chest. But then listen carefully: don't stay there. Don't use my absence as an excuse to stop you.
Do you think I came into your life so that the day I leave you will let me die with me?. Nope! Don't you dare dim your light because of my shadow. I am not the end of your story. I'm a chapter, yes, an important one, one that marked you and will always be there, but your life doesn't stop because mine did.
Pain is a cruel teacher i know. It tears you apart, it leaves you naked in front of your fragility. But it also teaches you, if you let it, that you're still standing. Because here you are, breathing, fighting, feeling. And while you're still here, you have a duty: to live. Not for me, not for others. Because of you. Because of who you are.
Don't use my memory as an anchor. Use it as a lighthouse, as a guide to light your path when all seems lost. Remember our laughs, our hugs, but don't get trapped in them. I don't want you to be a museum of memories, I want you to be river flowing, moving, transforming everything it touches.
So yeah miss me Allow yourself that grief, because it is love that hurts you. But after every teardrop, after every dark night, choose to live. Choose to laugh, love, fall and rise again. Choose to follow, because that's what I would do if I were you.
Life is a breath, an instant. Don't waste yours anchored in my absence. Cause even if it's not the way you want it to be anymore, I'm still with you. I'm in every step you take, in every smile you manage to rescue. I'm here, telling you with all the strength that love allows me to: LIVE!.