
08/03/2025
Embracing the Sacred Journey Death Offers
Rev. Dr. Cynthia Ramirez Lindenmeyer
Omaha World-Herald, August 3, 2025, pg E-3
I remember early mornings before school when my grandfather would stroll into the front yard, grab his early edition newspaper, then sit down for breakfast as he opened the pages. He ignored the front-page headlines and the sports section, heading straight to the obituaries. I didn’t understand that habit at the time. Now, I find myself doing the same (albeit electronically).
Death is the one certainty in life, and yet we spend much of our time avoiding its reality. During military service, hospital chaplaincy and church ministry, I’ve witnessed a wide range of responses to when a loved one takes their final breath. At the graveside, a butterfly, or dragonfly, or sudden downpour of rain is interpreted as a sign from beyond. Sometimes funerals involve humor and laughter, other times the silence is deafening as no one wants to acknowledge the loss.
Sacred texts in nearly all religious faith highlight the fleeting nature of life, comparing it to a mere breath, noting our body is a temporary vessel for our spirit. What would it mean to live not merely as a soul trapped in a body, but as a body entrusted with carrying our spirit? As the Jesuit priest Pierre Teilhard de Chardin once wrote, “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.”
Would you really want to live forever? The shortness of life offers so many beautiful opportunities to evolve spiritually, and that proverbial life ticking clock creates within us a desire to fulfill an inner purpose instead of sleeping through each day. Death is not the opposite of life, but the doorway into a deeper expression of it. While an obituary cannot capture the fulness of one’s life, any attempt to describe the continuation of the soul after death also falls short. Time is only a veil through which eternity whispers.
The best preparation for death is not fear, but surrender. Let go of what troubles you. Breathe into the mystery. Know that life is good, but so is death. Why stay attached to the negative story of death?