05/01/2026
Mental Health Awareness Month ✨
A page from my diary, Dec 2024:
We've been living together for 3 weeks and I've been splitting off and on as we merge our lives together.
He's 🐝 been cranky for a couple of days, being reactive with my dogs and short in texts. He looked tired and disheveled.
Turns out, he has allergies! But he forgot to update his address with the pharmacy so his medicine delivery is off. I believe he did mention this, but it was pushed to the back of my mind.
Instead my mind went into thinking everything was my fault, "He did all these amazing things for ME! He moved far from work, far from friends. My dogs are chasing his cats. He probably thinks I was a mistake."
How I handled the situation:
1. Kept busy. I distracted myself by unpacking and organizing. I made online purchases to decorate our new home.
2. I had to focus on the fact that NEVER in OUR history together has he misled me. I need to make sure I don't impulsively react.
3. I reminded myself that HE asked ME into his life. If something was wrong, he would tell me. My dogs are part of my package, he needs to learn to deal with them. Just like I need to learn to deal with his cats.
Once I saw his smile after work yesterday and realized he looked different.. "OMG he's been sick this whole time without his meds!" 🤪 It's a constant struggle to remember that it's not personal.
It's Friday and we have an amazing weekend planned.
He's feeling better, I'm feeling better.
It's going to be a good weekend.