His Love Counseling Services

09/23/2025

Jesus created and healed. He didn’t afflict. Consider the word live. Get it backward, and it spells evil. Jesus is holy, and he can’t get it backward.
God’s habitations have no evil. In Eden before the fall, God didn’t inflict evil.
In the personhood of God’s incarnate expression of himself, Jesus, there is no evil. And in heaven, there is no evil.
Physical, emotional, social and spiritual problems are only a part of the earthly environment. Where the earth and humankind are below the design of God’s creation, problems are helter skelter, troubling both the just and the unjust.
Our world can’t be a place where we always reside in health and happiness. If we think it’s supposed to be, we set up ourselves for a lot of stress unto distress. Life here isn’t fair and stuff happens to all of us on our journey through here. Our situation and plight bring injury our way, not our Lord.
Christ is present to love us through whatever challenges we face. If we trust him to help us, he strengthens us, comforts us, heals us on earth or heals us with heaven. His courage is our courage. -Buddy Scott

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09/16/2025

📖In my book, Relief for Hurting Parents, I emphatically warn that the wrong crowd is family enemy #1. I include not only naughty peers within the label but also foul adults in real life, on TV and in the movies.
📺🎞Kids are sponges. They soak up everything that they detect with their five senses. In addition, values are caught more than they are taught. -Buddy Scott

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09/09/2025

💥After 50 years of counseling experience, I know of no other way to deal with our jeopardy other than receiving the Christ who was with God during creation and holds out to us redemption—redemption from not knowing who we are, why we are here, for whom we live, in whose plan we are included and redemption from being perishable. -Buddy Scott

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09/02/2025

In the Old Testament, the “fear God” phrase means to have such immense respect and reverence for God that we faithfully do what he instructs.

Here is the “fear God” verse in Ecclesiastes from the Good News Translation, “After all this, there is only one thing to say: Have reverence for God, and obey his commands, because this is all that we were created for.”

Picture it this way: When driving on the levee, you have no problem if you drive the straight and narrow way; but if you drive off the sides, you are in trouble. Think of God’s pathway as the safe road atop the levee. Don’t venture over the sides because there are severe consequences similar to these:
Lying makes one unbelievable.
Stealing renders one undesirable in free society.
Injustice leads to avoidance and loneliness.
Backstabbing initiates rejection.
Speeding turns on the dreaded lights of state troopers.

Essentially, God is communicating in the Bible, “Stay close to me so that I can protect you from the painful consequences of evil.” -Buddy Scott

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08/27/2025

Have a blessed Labor Day weekend!

08/19/2025

💥The apostle John wrote a verse that contains this promise: “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
❤️The formula structured into that verse is this one: Authentic confession = complete forgiveness plus total cleansing minus anything that separates us from God. -Buddy Scott

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08/12/2025

“A witness is what you are; not what you do.” It means that if you are living an attractive Christian life in front of others, you are 100 percent successful as a witness. -Buddy Scott

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08/06/2025

😇People can’t comprehend the love of God unless his love is alive within them. -Buddy Scott

❤️“Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28 NASB

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07/30/2025

😵‍💫Your kids aren’t going to turn out bad because they repeatedly leave a wet towel on their bedspread, or hold the refrigerator door open while deciding what to eat, or because they miss the honor roll once in a while, or because they won’t stop their pestering within sibling rivalry: It’s the wrong crowd, people! The wrong crowd is the deciding factor.

If your kids get involved in the wrong crowd, they’ll go haywire. If they get with the right crowd, they’ll become as responsible as their friends. So relax about the everyday things. -Buddy Scott

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07/22/2025

📄🧒👩We suggest parents prepare an example resume when children are 13 and 14 years old. We encourage them to include a nice photo of the teen in the corner of the form that they build on the computer. Help him or her see the significance of volunteering to build a resume.

The coveted effect is that kids will realize that everything matters: Appearance, reputation, grades, volunteering and not being a cookie-cutter kid who just goofs off on electronics, only doing what’s required. -Buddy Scott

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07/16/2025

💥10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, 80 and on. There's a large timeline in our office of all the ages for a lifetime span. As our clients view the timeline, they see the years they’ve lived, and they see the years they’re yet to live. We encourage our clients to develop goals for their futures with this question: ‘From what I’ve been through and what I’ve learned from it, how shall I live the rest of my life?’” 😇 -Buddy Scott

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07/02/2025

😇If you begin to bless others, God will place more people in your pathway. Your sphere of influence will increase as God expands your borders. Remember the prayer of Jabez that was “excavated” from the Old Testament a few years back? Here it is:

“Oh, that you, God, would indeed bless me and enlarge my territory, that your hand might be with me, and that you would keep me from evil, that it may not bring me hardship!” -Buddy Scott

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