07/08/2025
NEW BLOG POST!!!
"It wasn’t the first time I had been at odds with my teenage son—and it wouldn’t be the last. But in this moment, something shifted. I realized that if I wanted to protect the closeness in our relationship, something in me needed to change.
I’ve always seen myself as a present and involved mom—affectionate, encouraging, open to hard conversations, and committed to guiding my kids with care. But the truth is, I also let my own anxieties, fears, and desire for control creep in. Deep down, I was scared. Scared of getting it wrong. Scared of him making painful choices. And so I’d tighten my grip in ways that actually created more distance.
Looking back, I can see how this made it harder for my son to trust me with the things that mattered most. He didn’t need more advice—he needed connection. And despite raising my kids to be strong, independent, and expressive, in this moment it felt like that approach was coming back to bite me.
I had to ask myself....."
Click the link below to find out the question that turned fear into connection—and inspired our Parenting Workshop.
A real-life story from two therapists—mother and son—exploring how parents can reconnect with teens facing mental health or addiction challenges. Learn more about the Rising Together parenting workshop in Vernon Hills.