Renovation Biblical Counseling, PLLC

Renovation Biblical Counseling, PLLC Christ-centered Christian Counseling for adults, teens, couples, families, and groups.

I am a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and EMDR therapist providing counseling and therapeutic intervention from a Biblical perspective. My office is located in Lakewood, Washington, near the Lakewood Towne Center. I am trained to work with adults, adolescents, couples, families, and groups. Although I work with depression, anxiety, and a wide variety of life challenges, my specialti

es are marital counseling, trauma, eating disorders, substance abuse and addiction, blended families, and spiritual development. My focus areas are motivated from life experiences that I have dealt with personally or in relationship with a loved one, therefore I delight and derive an enormous sense of purpose in assisting those struggling with similar issues. Since no two people are exactly alike, it stands to reason that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to counseling. Each person’s journey is unique, and solutions to stressed relationships and life’s difficulties must be tailor-made. Concepts, interventions, and “gold nuggets” from Cognitive Behavioral, Solution-Focused, Values-Based, Narrative, Family Systems, and other therapies are employed when helpful and harmonious with God’s thoughts and ways as revealed in Scripture. My goal is to assist clients to learn about themselves, grow, and put together their own emotional and mental health toolboxes so they can overcome present challenges and any future problems encountered in life. I provide a safe and supportive place for people to come and unload and be who they really are right now, flaws and all. For some people it takes a lot of courage to allow themselves to be vulnerable and let someone into the most painful places in their lives. I am patient and gentle, and take as long as needed to build rapport and trust with each person. Facing difficulties in life can be become opportunities for tremendous change and growth. Office hours: Monday through Thursday, including some evening appointments.

04/29/2026

I do think suffering in marriage (martyrdom) is romanticized in Christian marriage. But in reality, tolerating abuse ENABLES the abusive spouse to ROT IN THEIR SIN.

Consequences bring hope for change. It's the equivalent of a rod. You can pray until the cows come home, but if the person digs in his/her heels and will not listen to God, then a proverbial smack upside the head may be in order.

You don't have to run straight for divorce, but you might consider drawing a hard line of some kind. Your home should be your sanctuary, your spouse a "safe harbor" - not the place where you are systematically being dismantled and broken down as a person. We are human beings, not machines! Interceding from a safe distance is sometimes a wise option.

Enduring a destructive marriage doesn't make you holy or obedient. It makes you naive.

I received a lot from Marilyn Hickey in my younger years. She was a solid component of my spiritual ground-breaking. I'm...
04/29/2026

I received a lot from Marilyn Hickey in my younger years. She was a solid component of my spiritual ground-breaking. I'm not sure why or how she slipped off my radar, but I am rejoicing now at her home-coming. What a precious woman of God!

“It is the glory of God to conceal things, but the glory of kings is to search things out.”  (Proverbs 25:2)Ask God for ...
04/28/2026

“It is the glory of God to conceal things, but the glory of kings is to search things out.” (Proverbs 25:2)

Ask God for his wisdom today. Read his word with the guidance of the Spirit. God is waiting patiently to reveal everything you have the desire to seek out. First-15

04/22/2026

This a hard word, but true:

It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live? For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. (Hebrews 12:3-11)

Reflect on it. Things start to become more clear.

I love this so much! It's literally the key for me and for all of you.
04/18/2026

I love this so much! It's literally the key for me and for all of you.

8 Reasons You Must Renew Your Mind

There is a call in this hour that cannot be ignored. It is not a call to blend in, not a call to adapt to culture, not a call to soften the truth so it becomes palatable. It is a call to transformation.

The Scripture says in Romans 12:2 (NKJV), “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”

This is not a suggestion, it is a command. And if we are going to stand in the days ahead, we must become people with transformed minds, not conformed hearts.

First, a transformed mind allows you to discern truth from deception. The world is loud right now. Voices everywhere. Opinions everywhere. But not everything that sounds good is God. The Bible says in 1 John 4:1 (NKJV), “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits…” A renewed mind is anchored in the Word, not swayed by trends. Without transformation, you will be pulled into confusion. With it, you will walk in clarity.

Second, a transformed mind breaks the patterns of the flesh. The world teaches indulgence, but the Spirit calls us to discipline. Galatians 5:16 (NKJV) says, “Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.” When your mind is renewed, your desires begin to change. You no longer crave what once controlled you. You begin to hunger for righteousness.

Third, a transformed mind produces peace in chaos. Right now, fear is being marketed constantly. But the believer is not called to live in fear. Isaiah 26:3 (NKJV) says, “You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You.” Notice that. Peace is connected to where your mind stays. If your mind is on the world, anxiety will follow. If your mind is on the Lord, peace will guard you.

Fourth, a transformed mind aligns you with the will of God. Romans 12:2 continues, “that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” Many people ask, “What is God’s will for my life?” It begins with a renewed mind. When your thinking changes, your direction becomes clear.

Fifth, a transformed mind guards your heart and your life. Proverbs 4:23 (NKJV) says, “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.” What you allow into your mind will eventually shape your heart. This is why we must be careful what we watch, what we listen to, and who we give access to our spirit.

Sixth, a transformed mind sets you apart from the world. We are not called to look like everyone else. 1 Peter 1:15-16 (NKJV) says, “But as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct.” Holiness begins in the mind before it shows up in behavior. When your thinking is different, your life will be different.

Seventh, a transformed mind strengthens you against spiritual warfare. The battlefield is often the mind. The enemy targets thoughts, imaginations, and lies. But 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NKJV) tells us to bring “every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.” A renewed mind knows how to reject lies and stand on truth.

Eighth, a transformed mind positions you to walk in Kingdom impact. You cannot change the world if you think like the world. Matthew 5:14 (NKJV) says, “You are the light of the world.” Light stands out. Light exposes darkness. Light does not blend in. When your mind is transformed, your life becomes a testimony that draws others to Jesus.

This is what it looks like.

It means time in the Word. It means prayer in the secret place. It means saying no to things that dull your spirit and yes to the presence of God.

It means renewing your mind daily, not occasionally. This is not a one-time decision, it is a lifestyle.

We are living in a time where conformity is easy and transformation requires intention. But the power of God is still available to those who are willing to be set apart. The question is not whether the world will try to shape you. It will. The question is, will you allow the Holy Spirit to transform you?

Make the decision today! Renew your mind!

Stay in His presence. And watch how everything begins to change. 🙏

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I love the church.I genuinely do. But we have developed a prayer culture that has become a very sophisticated form of disobedience.
We pray about things God has already given us authority over. We ask God to bind the devil when God already told us to do it.
We beg God to move in our city when God already commissioned us to move in it.
We plead with God to open doors that He already placed the key to in our hands.

Then we call it humility. But it is not humility.
It is abdication. Matthew 18:18 says “Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” Whatever YOU bind.

Not whatever God binds on your behalf.
Whatever YOU bind. God has already established the legal framework. God has already rendered the verdict through the cross.

God has already seated you with Christ in heavenly places Ephesians 2:6.God has already given you authority over all the power of the enemy Luke 10:19.

The question is not whether God is willing to move. The question is whether you are willing to take your seat and enforce what heaven has already decided.

You are not a beggar at the throne. You are a son. You are a daughter. You are a joint heir with Jesus Christ. Joint heirs don’t beg for what already belongs to them.
They walk in it.

Dr. Zac Breckenridge

Happy Easter! Our resurrected Savior is alive! Once spiritually dead, we are resurrected too!
04/05/2026

Happy Easter! Our resurrected Savior is alive! Once spiritually dead, we are resurrected too!

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I am a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) providing counseling and therapeutic intervention from a Biblical perspective. My offices are located in Puyallup and Lakewood, Washington. I am trained to work with adults, adolescents, couples, families, and groups. Although I work with depression, anxiety, and a wide variety of life challenges, my specialties are marital counseling, eating disorders, substance abuse and addiction, blended families, and spiritual development. My focus areas are motivated from life experiences that I have dealt with personally or in relationship with a loved one, therefore I delight and derive an enormous sense of purpose in assisting those struggling with similar issues. Since no two people are exactly alike, it stands to reason that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to counseling. Each person’s journey is unique, and solutions to stressed relationships and life’s difficulties must be tailor-made. Concepts, interventions, and “gold nuggets” from Cognitive Behavioral, Solution-Focused, Values-Based, Narrative, Family Systems, and other therapies are employed when helpful and harmonious with God’s thoughts and ways as revealed in Scripture. My goal is to assist clients to learn about themselves, grow, and put together their own emotional and mental health toolboxes so they can overcome present challenges and any future problems encountered in life. I provide a safe and supportive place for people to come and unload and be who they really are right now, flaws and all. For some people it takes a lot of courage to allow themselves to be vulnerable and let someone into the most painful places in their lives. I am patient and gentle, and take as long as needed to build rapport and trust with each person. Facing difficulties in life can be become opportunities for tremendous change and growth. Office hours: Monday through Thursday, including some evening appointments.