
12/21/2022
Great resources and thought for working with the gifted.
Most (not all) exceptionally gifted folk are psychologically introverted.
Introverted children/adults process internally before showing or expressing their thoughts externally.
Their processing speed is often lightning-fast and rife with uncommon associations and myriad connections (flavoured with past, present and future orientations, adding an unexpected dimension to any easy understanding).
And though they are capable of lightening-fast mental processing, some aspects of their “knowing” may takea little longer for them to fully comprehend.
Their complete understanding of a thing may be rendered knowable through bodily sensations, flashes of insight, prescient feelings, and/or mental images not yet tethered to written or spoken language.
Knowing for the exceptionally gifted is multi-modal.
Comprised of many different and connected parts.
Often original.
They are capable of precise, complex and attuned visualization of both concepts and feelings.
These conceptualizations are most often highly individualized and they typically have few opportunities to express their ideas in the world to like-minded peers in a truly reciprocal exchange.
This reciprocal and authentic exchange is deeply desired, a need that is foundational, like oxygen and water.
We help them grow when we listen with an open heart. Listen without pre-conception. Listen to understand. When we lean into a grace as they express the unexpected, a challenge to our own understanding of a thing.
We help them grow when we encourage the many-expressions of their person to live out loud: the playful child, the astounding thinker, the worried soul.
We help them grow when we — their parents or teachers or guides — provide boundaries as needed, a sure shelter (not always an easy maneuver, given the dynamic quality of their development and the sheer intensity of their being).
We help them grow when we attend to our own deeply felt and emergent needs. This too is never easy to pull off; we try our best to lean into the same grace and understanding we offer to them.
Community and humour are salves. Humour provides essential perspective and community helps us walk this journey with a little skip in our step.
Offering the most sincere wishes for lovely holidays to all of you; wishing you the very, very best!
P. Susan Jackson.
Founder, Daimon Institute.
British Columbia, Canada. 🤍🤍🤍